I believe every situation is a good situation. Life is all about growth! Within every moment passing by there’s a lesson to be learn. While others might differ with me in this matter. I say it’s our thoughts that define our reality. As William Shakespeare said_ “NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BUT THINKING MAKES IT SO” . Everything is NEUTRAL. Nothing is created as evil or good. Everything in this universe is given to us to get shaped. We who give the form and meaning of things using the mind. Your mind can make you or break you, thus it’s necessary to have control over it.
How can I control my thinking? In order to control your thoughts you need to be aware of them . Catch yourself when you’re negative thinking. It is alright! Dont beat yourself down, but rather fix your flaws by accepting yourself. Accept that you’re a pessimist. Then work on improving this by finding the light in between the darkness. Look for blessings in every situation before you judge it.