Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … You know I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life. But every time I think I’m, I discover I’m actually not independent. He who answered this question as “NO”. Is the closest to the truth; YOU CAN NEVER BE INDEPENDENT.
Sure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need your parents or people etc. Best of all, you will become emotionally independent ( by spiritualgrowth). Emotional independence is the advanced level of independence. It’s strong linked with spirituality since emotions are the language of the heart. When you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own. You will then develop emotional independent, which is detachment from all external sources. Certainly it’s such a POWERFUL state of being. Yet you are not truly independent .
The reality is, we can’t achieve full independence. Simply because we’re created as The slaves of god. A slave is always needy. Always Replying on his master. It’s a blessed reality when you understand that your creator is the sustainer and most generous. The point i want to get across, is that we’re not meant to be independent in the spiritual world. Plus to successfully achieve independence in the world of form, we need to rely on god. I hope this was a good reminder that will bring you gratitude. 🙏💕 I think we need to remind ourselves every now and then about WHO WE ARE. We often get blinded by the materialistic achievements and develop an ego, which gives us a false sense of power.
I understand the struggle and your burning desire for change.
But Unfortunately, battling is not the right method. YOU CAN’T CHANGE THE NEGATIVE WITH NEGATIVE. In order to obtain real change you must start with changing the source of the problem. Otherwise the problem will keep recurring; because no effective change have been applied. Likewise, To build a strong building, you need a good foundation. we often focus on the problem instead of the source of the problem. Then as reactive beings we try to replace the existing with our perspective, using force. Thus we fail and will keep failing.
Another problem we commit while seeking change, is that we think everything can be solved using Force. while in reality it complicate things even more. TRY USING YOUR ENERGY INSTEAD OF YOUR BODY. Energy can’t be ignored nor avoided. It’s what makes us and the laws of the universe. When you influence a negative source with good energy, you’ll not only succeed in transforming the source. But you will also attract more positive results.
Let me tell you a little story that happened to me a long time ago; We all have that one person who hates us, for no reason. It’s not that he/she spit out their hate, but the repulsive energy they transmit towards you is obvious. Fast forward, I was once put into an event with a person who held such feelings towards me. It’s not like we’ve spoke before. Yet the moment I acknowledged his hate towards me, I began to transmit positive energy ( In the form of thoughts) . Such as ” hey! your safe, your wonderful, your amazing , i love you, you are blessed, I’m peace, I’m not judging you…etc “. I transmitted a combination of love, positivity and healing energy and I kid you not! the situation shifted 360 degrees!!! The person became more relaxed and peaceful. We even became friends later on.
The method I used here is called TELEPATHY COMMUNICATION. I’m not saying that we should always use this technique. My story is only an example that shows you the power of energy. Nevertheless, You can change people using positive energy, in the form of attitude, positive words, thoughts or just A SMILE. To me this’s the true definition of winning, it’s not only by solving a problem but also saving a life. Picking up someone who’s trapped in negatively and giving them light… We’re not here to create enimes, infact we’re ONE. When you harm others you’re indirectly harming yourself. Plus you’re no longer better than them. So use your energy WISELY. 💕
Dreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.
So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..
Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either. Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem. As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY. Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life. Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.
Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.
Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up. Instead It’s very peaceful.
I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .
I’m not here to judge you or tell you what’s right from wrong. I’m here to ask you one question, what did you keep for your lover?
It’s very easy nowadays to FOLLOW. We follow fashion and trends without questioning anything. We show a little skin and say it’s ok. We show too much skin and say it’s ok. We lose ourselves and say it’s ok … We hurt ourselves and others but it must be ok. Everything is ok nowadays, immorality and shamelessness is just OK. Until we meet the love of our life, the one we want to give the world to. The one we love more than ourselves. The one that makes us realise we have nothing left to give. Because we gave it all to the world, Blinded by the media and addicted to attention.
So I will ask you again ladies and gentlemen, what did you keep for your suppose? What will prove to them that they’re special? What gift did you save for them and only them ? I hope you open your eyes before it’s too late. I pray you work for what’s meaningful and long lasting. Because you deserve the best. YOU’RE VALUABLE.❤
I was in a gathering the other day where everybody BRAGED. Showing off what they have and did. Naturally I just don’t like talking about myself, especially showing off. So i stayed silent. The following days I realized the change in attitude. Obviously the one who showed off the most or in the society’s eyes is “Great” and “Wealthy ” was given respect and honnor. Where for me I was discounted. As a result I got taken by the negativity, not that they harmed me but the act of racism or segregation by itself is negative.
” Just because i dont show off my greatness, doesnt mean i’m not great“. This thought bought me back to my senses. It’s insane how we can think less of ourselves and believe in other’s opinion of us. Yet worst, make it our reality. We live in an age where Trend is stronger than one’s own voice. Indeed, the society tremendously influence how we perceive ourselves. THE ASCH CONFORMITY EXPERIMENT; is a psychological experiment done in the 1950’s. The experiment revealed the degree to which a person’s opinion is influenced by those of groups. It proved that the society can suppress our voice. In fact, people were willing to ignore the reality and give an incorrect answer inorder to conform to the rest of the group. See for yourself >
You’re great and you don’t need to prove it! No, you don’t need to mimic the fales greatness ( The Greatness measured with materialistic properties, which motivate us to show off and brag instead of act and impact). Greatness is already within you. The true greatness. At the end the only memory will be left of you after you die, is the memories you gave to others. Not your big house or your fancy cars, But how many hearts did you touch. To conclude, just think wiser and become aware of the effect on society on your mind.
ANTI-SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR IS AN ACT OF INTELLIGENCE IN A WORLD FULL OF CONFORMIST _ Nikola Tesla.
Where is the love ? Is it in the things you buy? Is it in your spouse? Is it in nature ? Or in food? Love is within you. It’s not an emotion or a an image ..a person ….a thing …a feeling etc. Love is energy. It’s the compound of life. Where there is love there is life.
When you like someone you’re selfish. You want to own them. You don’t care if you hurt them through fulfilling your desire. But when you love someone you’re selfless. You care only about their happiness, even if it mean sacrificing your own. Its important to understand that love is pure, it’s from God. Only God can sustain you with love. Before you say you love someone test yourself with the explanation above. Inaddition see if you can LET GO of the person you love. If you failed, then I’m sorry to say YOU DON’T LOVE HIM / HER. Love shouldn’t make you needy. Once attachment is involved it’s not love but a lack in self-esteem. The sense of being incomplete.
Love is infinite. It shouldn’t fade or die simply because energy doesn’t die. Love is a strong nourishing energy that build life on earth. The love in your heart can increase as you ascend through levels of consciousness. Thus many individuals experience a shift in personality after waking up, from bitter and selfish to selfless and compassionate. The love in their hearts have been activated. They then attract more love by practicing love and so forth.
The moral of this blog is; don’t look for love, your not missing it! It’s within you. Just activate it through 2 things;
1. connecting with the true source of love, GOD.
2. Manifesting more love into your life through your actions .
An angel he was, with a beautiful brave eyes. Soft lips and silky flying hair. I love it when he smile and more when he’s asleep. I love myself in his arms and when he look at me with his sexy eyes. I love his soft beautiful skin. I laugh at his joke because I can’t help but to smile.
He made me dream! He makes me believe in the unseen…. His love makes me touch the clouds. Sometimes I fear it would all end. I fear the reality of life. The bitter truth. Yet once again i get lost in his eyes.
He think of himself as a curse and try to be the darkness. But I clearly see him shin. I know his truth. I know his mine. Maybe this’s the reason I’M FINE, dispute him carelessly livining.
I wish he could see my love. I wish he would understand. I’ll always be waiting for him to come home. I just pray he find me wherever I am.
Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.
How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people:
1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.
2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.
3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .
4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.
5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.
6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .
7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.
For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.
Nobody is hurting us. Instead we hurt ourselves through others. If we don’t turn our focus inward & become conscious of our nature. We’ll allow the past to repeat it’s patterns.
What do you mean by our nature?
The human nature is pure but the ego pollute it. The ego is with each one of us “Humans are like the moon, with a bright side and a dark side”. This is absolutely true. We all have an ego. Some activate it and others don’t. The ego is a basically your DARK SIDE. It feed on negative / low energy. Such as anger, drama, fear, sadness, conflicts, hate and jealousy ..etc.
How does it feed on these emotions? The ego see such emotional state as a chance to activate itself through it. So you find yourself getting angry over little meaningless things or get offended by everything.. etc. If so, understand that it’s not you but your ego trying to take over you. Once the ego activate itself it grow, which makes it powerful. If you allow it to keep growing through the negativity; it will eventually control you.
People who are driven by the ego are very reactive. Their ego jumps as soon as it finds an opportunity for conflicts or drama. Another nature of the ego is that it’s an ego! It only validate itself and it’s not fair. It takes a conscious alert self to admit a mistake. Ego is unconsciousness. It’s not your true self, instead your dark side. Therefore, I excuse unconscious people for their actions. I think we should all do so after learning about the ego. However, the ego can be defeated. Battling the ego require time and constant consciousness.
To fight the ego you must BECOME CONSCIOUS OF IT. Yes! As simple as this. All you should do is become alert of it when it’s present. Absorve your ego at the moment of anger or drama. When you notice the ege it shrink in size. Thus by time the ego will diminish.
How do I know I’m ego_free ?
The state of no-ego; This state is the state of total awareness and self control. It’s inner peace & calmness. After you have finally won over the ego. You will experience such life changing bless❤.
As i mentioned in part 1 of this blog, about how to become healtheir in the aspect of food and beauty care. In this blog i will be talking about how to control diseases, in other words what is the core of diseases.
During my irritable bowel disease IBD, i discovered another defect! Unfortunately in the medicine industry. It took the doctors 3 years to diagnose my IBD. The whole experience was horrible!!! It made me develop a hate for hospitals. Long story short, I noticed that medication became more like BUSINESS and less of a HEALTH CARE. The way the doctors played the “COME BACK LATER” game was DISGUSTING. Indeed, how little they care about people’s health and how little they fulfil their duty is very disturbing; to watch doctors who are suppose to be the WORLD’S LIFE SAVERS are instead not caring at all or trying to kill their patients! I had more than one doctor telling me “ Leave because your case is not as dangerous as cancer ”. I kid you not this was a private expensive hospital.
Emphatically I learned valuable lessons from this experience. one of which in this century it’s best if one return to nature for healing. In nature one can find EVERYTHING he needs. Stocks of Nature are enough to heal an illness and keep wellness. I realised that all diseases are cased and depending on these 4 key factors:
- Phycology .
- Healthy diet .
- Spirtual health.
You see, Healing is 70% psychology, 25% food and 5 % medication. Sometimes you won’t even need the 5%. Because every disease begins in the mind. You might be taking extra care of your health but if you are thinking , visualising and feeling illness before it happen. You’re basically manifesting it. All my life i stuck with a healthy lifestyle, yet no matter what i did I always ended up getting sick more than the average person. Until I had the courage to become fully honest with myself; i was subconsciously desiring death and illness, like a thirsty child in the desert.
Non of my healthy eating tips will benefit you if you aren’t willing to get healthy. So acknowledge the hidden repulsive desire for illness and start doing this: label a cup “Abundant Health ” using a sticky note. Every morning drink the recipe (I’m going to prepare with you right now) in this cup. But before you drink it imagen and feel how it’s like to become 100% healthy. While concentrating on the cup. Put all your energy in this cup, then drink!
RECIPE: In a cup add…
- 1 tsp of ANISE seeds.
- 1/2 tsp of fennel seeds.
- 1/2 tsp of cumin seeds.
- 1 tsp of raw honey ( optional).
- 1 tsp of green tea ( optional)
- Add boiled water .
MUST PREPARE THE DRINK AT NIGHT & LEAVE OVERNIGHT, THEN DRINK THE FOLLOWING MORNING WITH SQUEEZED LEMON JUICE .
I want you to wield this recipe, because I have seen wonders using this drink. I was permanently cured from IBD and premature menopause a few months after constantly drinking the recipe. Also my dad saw a drop in cholesterol, balance in testosterone level and cure of digestive issues. Beside the benefits of this drink, what I asked you to do before drinking it, Is basically manifesting health. So when you drink the recipe it won’t target just physical health. But your subconscious desire for illness as well. Give it a try & share your results with me in the comments below.