If I would ask you right now, are you free? will you honestly answer yes?
Most people deep down know that they’re not free. Maybe the definition itself is the boundary. Maybe you weren’t born a slave to this world but you enslaved yourself by what we call A TITLE. Maybe the roles you play are not a part of life, but a mechanism for limitations…
What is an IDENTITY?
An identity is a title that you inherited by the society based on your Role ( functional role believed by the subconscious mind). in addition, your identity could be based on a place that you THOUGHT you found yourself in. It’s anything we put before it “my “ or “I’m”. in fact we’re told to constantly identify ourselves with things as if we’re equivalent to objects. But the down side to self identifying is that what you identify yourself with becomes a part of you. (Not in reality, but in the subconscious belief system of WHO YOU ARE). your belief attach you to the tittle your gave yourself and makes you live in limitation of your identity. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom, limits your potential and keeps you fixated instead of being the flexible human being you are .
It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. however, when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically you will find the truth of who you are. Identities are man made illusions, they’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego. As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusionary emotions like fear, negativity etc.. “TO BREAK FREE YOU MUST LET GO” to rise you must kill what’s holding you down.
-you’re your own worst enemy-
Dreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares, Emotional dreams and An message from the divine dreams.
- Nightmares It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare since fear is highly vibrant in such dream. It’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very strong. The devil’s main goal is to disturb your peace and he do so through scary visual images. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, fiction can never come to life.
2.Emotional dreams are a self made dream. Basically reflection of your inner state. For example your stress or worry can manifest itself in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either. The over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the issue, because it attract harmful energy. If your dream consist of unexplained signs you can get a translation from a psychological. However, such dream is often forgotten right after waking up, since it’s nothing more than emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.
Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages. The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions when you wake up. Instead It’s very peaceful.
I had a different blog to post today that I prepared beforehand. But honestly when I saw this on my news feed i couldn’t help it!! It’s crazy how we tend to forget about those who’re under less fortunate. We get so caught up in materialism and how many things we don’t have yet. That we became such self centred creatures with a cruel heart. We envy and hate of those above us (financially). Forgetting the truth that we are blessed! We are blessed with so much more than the eye can see and the head can count. We are blessed with so many tinny seemingly invisible blessings on daily basis, that we take for granted. Such as air, water, food, senses, people ..etc
I can’t even count the blessings of god because they’re un-countable. It’s really incredible how the motion of life itself, is a blessing. Imagine if something went wrong all of a sudden? Whatever happens in your present is manifested by the blessings and protection of god. ❤
So be grateful. Thank God for what you have now. Did you know that all God’s creation like animales , plant and nature praises god all the time. In Comparison, how little we do.
What is the soul? Your soul is yourself. The reality of who you are. Indeed you’re nothing more than a deadless, formless and timeless soul. The idea that when your body get sick, your soul get sick which result into death is incorrect. Instead it’s because of a sick soul the body gets sick. “We’re not a human beings having a spiritual experience, we’re spiritual beings having a human experience. ”
I want you to imagine a building as your body and it’s base as your soul. The building consist of a strong structure yet if something happens to the base the whole building will fall off . On the other hand If something happens to the top structure the base will remain unaffected. The structure of the building can always be rebuilt; but the base can’t be recovered without destroying the entire building including the base.
My point is, a healthy soul is essential for survival. You must have a strong base in Order to overcome all storms of life. The amazing thing about the human soul is that it doesn’t ask for much! It doesn’t require sleep or food or money etc… It already have a permemnent life. The only thing the soul needs is a connection with it’s creator, thus a spiritual connection with god is important, it’s the only way the soul can charge itself and stay alive.
- How do I practice spiritual Connection ?
Spiritual connection can be done through praying or meditating. Basically setting an alone time with god, taking to GOD and acknowledging GOD’S existence. The process of god consciousness is a door way for the soul to connect with it’s master. The absence or lack of this process can be described as heaviness in the chest and you can actually tell that your soul exhausted and intoxicated by the materialistic world.
- How is the soul toxicated by the materialistic world?
The soul have a different nature than the body. The things that the body enjoy and desire; will not satisfy the soul. For example you see people with a sick soul and are very determined on the body’s needs. sadly they reach a certain point where their soul breaks.
Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKe, to put on a false image of themselves. I actually believe that nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.
How to spot a fake person? Fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades or not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people.
1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.
2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.
3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .
4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.
5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.
6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .
7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.
For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.
Nobody is hurting us. Instead we hurt ourselves through others. If we don’t turn our focus inward & become conscious of our nature. We’ll allow the past to repeat it’s patterns.
What do you mean by our nature? “Humans are like the moon, with a bright side and a dark side”. We all have an ego (the dark side). Some let it grow and others don’t. The ego feeds on negative low energy, such as anger, drama, fear, sadness, conflicts, hate and jealousy ..etc.
How does it feed on these emotions? The ego see such emotional state as a chance to activate itself through the emotion. So you find yourself getting angry over little meaningless things or get offended by everything neutral etc… If so, understand that it’s not you but your ego trying to take over you. Once the ego activate itself it grow and become powerful. If u let it keep growing through the negativity; it will eventually control you.
Why people who are driven by the ego are very reactive? Their ego jumps as soon as it finds an opportunity for conflicts or drama. Another nature of the ego is that it’s an ego! It only validate itself and it’s not fair. It takes a conscious human to recognise and admit’s his mistake, which is impossible with the ego. Ego is unconsciousness. It’s not your true self, instead your dark side. Therefore, I excuse unconscious people for their action and i think we should all do so. however, To fight the ego you must BECOME CONSCIOUS OF IT. Yes! As simple as this. Recognise it, watch it and accept it. When you The ego will shrink in size and diminish by time when you notice it’s existence.
Note: The state of no-ego; This state is the state of total awareness and self control. It’s inner peace and calmness. You will experience such life changing bless❤.
For any parent their mindset shift from “ free” to “responsible ” after having a child. As if a heavy weight have dropped on their shoulders. The ego find this an opportunity to grow! It fools you into defining yourself with a parenting role. Thus a mother will play the mother role on her child and gets extremely angry if her child doesn’t follow along. It’s not just a role to her! it’s her identity, who she think she is. Obviously this creates a lot of trouble in a family dynamic. Parents cling on their child’s freedom, emotionally abusing and criticising, all under the role of “parents“. Unfortunately, such madness will cause serious damage in a child’s personality, for example the inability to become irresponsible or decisive. In some severe conditions the child might never recover from playing the role of a ” child “.
Parents! I understand the profound love you’ve for your children. Yet true love can never be expressed through the ego. The ego always seek conflicts to validate itself and the role of a parent is nothing more than a tool for the ego to stay alive inside you. In addition the superior parent role creates a boundary between the child and his parent. Because any relationship that include the ego is inauthentic.
If you really love your child and is concerned about him/ her, ask yourself these questions every time you catch yourself playing the Parent role.
1. Did I like it when my parents did ( your reaction to the situation) this to me ?
2. Is their a better way I can deliver my message ?
3. Who is the better teacher experience or what I’m going to say right now ?
4. What’s the worst case scenario of this situation ?
5. Is my actions and words showing love or the otherwise?
6. Do i really want my child to become the best? And is the “best” other than himself ?
- You can still be a parent without playing the role of a parent!
Give your child love. Give them care & knowledge but through friendship; become their life supportive companion and not a superior parent. The best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. Be real. ONLY REAL THINGS CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS.
Let life teach them! yes, I understand you dont want your child to do the same mistakes you’ve done. But let’s be real; did you learn through experience or words ? Don’t forget that your experience made you into who you are today. So please! give your child SPACE…Let them be, experience and grow. SPACE is truly the most thing they need. Let go of your attachment Now! for the sake of your children.