Technology and culture are deeply interrelated. If technology change social culture will change. Just how the industrial revolution turned people into a industrial human beings with different values and mass pursuers. The same thing will happen today. It’s not a new age, but time repeating itself.
However, the rapid change in technology that we’re dealing with today is going to cause a strong confusion. what philosophers call it “a future shock “. Undoubtedly people will adapt to advanced technology yet not everybody will “get it”. The majority of people will be confused which will lead to mental illness.
How to survive in a future shock?
“Learn to unlearn, relearn and learn” I have not better advice to give you. Laterally this’s the key to future survival. We’re all adaptable beings but not everyone is flexible; I’m talking about mental flexibility. If you lack this quality then it’s time to develop it and you can do so by constantly doing new things, exposing yourself to new ideas and not being attached to any fixed form or title.
There’re countless myths about soulmates out there, I honestly dont understand why.. I mean a soulmate must be very distinguishable. However, I decided to make this blog in order to clarify the confusion.
Myth 1: we often think a soulmate is a person who “complete us”. The truth is you’re already a whole, You’re complete by your own. An accurate definition of a soulmate comes from the word itself “mate for the soul“. Which indicate that your soulmate is a person who is spirituality alignment with you and balances you out. A mate who you find harmony with in the physical and non physical world.
Myth 2: Another misunderstanding about soulmates is that he or she must be very similar to you. My answer to this myth is “it depends”. Some soulmates are similar, others are totally opposite. It doesn’t matter! What matters is that there’s a strong field of connection between the two souls. Another sign to look for is that “Do they make me grow?” …doesn’t your partner challenge you into becoming the best version of yourself? If the answer is ” yes” then he/she is your soulmate and vice versa.
Myth 3: Most people believe that a soulmate relationship is all rosy. I’m sorry but it’s not, a soulmate relationship is just like any relationship. There are ups and downs. Especially in a soulmate relationship where each partner subconscious challenges the other’s , it’s fair to say that such relationship could have more difficulties than a regular relationship.
It all began with an empathetic heart that thought it could heal a broken one. With no time the heart broke measurably before realising the absolute reality; which is “it’s not your responsibility to heal, save, punish or control other people”. yes! it’s not. It’s not your job to save others, neither do you have the capacity to do so. Empathy is good yet it should be thinked. An empathy who doesn’t use his mind in taking decisions will definitely break his own heart. Another common heart breaking attitude is expectation. A naive person with a good heart will always expect good from others and will soon be broken by those who are broken. As if a broken heart is a disease that spread..
Since every individual were once naive and empathetic. The world is left with broken people. People who lost hope in life. Neither do they understand their main purpose. To clarify, THE HUMAN MAIN PURPOSE IN LIFE IS NOT TO HELP OTHERS, IT’S TO WORSHIP GOD. When you build a connection with your creator and actually live in alignment with the universe. God will take care of you and those around you. Because only God is capable of healing people.
Are you saying that I must become selfish?
Not selfish, but in understanding of the nature of life. That people are sent to you for two reasons. Either for you to learn a lesson from them or to teach them. However teaching should never be misunderstood as healing. Indeed the best method of teaching is by DOING NOTHING. By being your conscious self that radiate a very intense graceful energy, which goes to impact others positivity. Your consciousness have the power to awaken the consciousness in others. You want to help a negative person? become the best positive person you can be. Your positivity will leave no choice for him/her but to change or to disappear from your life…Again! it goes to the fact that you can’t always heal everyone, only god can. It’s best to accept this truth and never play the victim again. You’re not broken , you’re healed , you’re complete. you have abundance of love within you … tell yourself positive affirmations long enough and it will become your reality.
INTUITION is that hunting feeling that comes out of no where. It’s an energy sent from the divine that hits your heart. Thus it can’t be proven outside of yourself. While most people freak out from this gift, I would tell you it’s NOTHING BUT GOOD. Don’t deny it! because it’s real. Nikola Tesla once said “My brain is only a receiver, in the Universe there is a core from which we obtain knowledge, strength and inspiration. I have not penetrated into the secrets of this core, but I know that it exists.”.. This is immaculately true. All knowledge is the knowledge of God. We’re constantly guided by superior intelligence. Sometimes in the form of sudden thoughts or ideas, others in the form of a feeling in the heart. Usually Intuition serve as a warning or a buzz for attention.
According to neuroscience not everyone is intuitive, due to their dominant side of the brain. A person who is “left-brained” is said to be more logical. while a “right-brained” is more intuitive, thoughtful, and subjective. Obviously you’re not missing one of your brain hemispheres; it’s just that one side of your brain is more active or ruling. While the other is lazy. In spite of this both sides of your brain are always at work and communicate with one another via Corpus Callosum. Which doesn’t diminish the fact that “left-brained” people can receive an intuitive feeling, Yet they resist it due to disbelief in it’s accuracy.
So back to the main question of this blog, Should you follow your intuition? Absolutely YES, the problem with rational thinking is that our brain as a receiver is exposed to all kind of information and can effortlessly pick an external idea, then later on perceive it as it’s own. which boils down to this, the information in the mind is not 100% YOU or the divine knowledge. Indeed it’s 90% from the external influence. Thus a gut feeling tend to be super accurate in respect to thought. If you would ask an intuitive people they will tell you ” my intuition is always correct”, yet you will be shocked at how little they follow their intuition. There’s a very fine line between overthinking and taking action, after you get a gut feeling. If you don’t move within seconds. you might as well deny the feeling in your heart.
Everything in the universe is energy, including yourself. Energy is immortal. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed; energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another again. From this definition we can understand the way in which the universe moves…
Let’s have a look at time, it tend to be moving in a circle and repeating itself again and again. Everything inside time is also moving in a circle, each particle of water in a wave moves in a circle. For every new moon a complete circle must accrue. The wind, the planets , the galaxy..etc. All the small circles are in serves to the life cycle. Therefore, time would be the outer circle that contains life. Is time dependent on life? Absolutely not. Time will go on even if there’s no life. It’s just an infinit motion by it’s own.
Then where would the human cycle stand ? The human cycle can be described as a one big moving circle. Found outside of time and life. Indeed it consist both life and time, yet dependent on it’s own. I said “moving ” because a human life have a motion by itself. Every year and every day is a completion of the human age. However after the physical body of the human being die. The human true form of being stays, Which is the soul. A soul is infinitely existing. Even after the death of the physical body. The physical body life spam motion have a speed and this’s why i mentioned “moving” instead of just “A circle”. On the other hand, The soul life spam moves quit slowly. It’s unaffected by time. DEATH IS NOT THE END, IT’S JUST THE BEGINNING.
To conclude, Nature will dance in circles to remind you that you’re life is a moving circle ruled by Time. Which is by itself an endless loop repeating itself over and over again.
Take a shower and your depression will go away. I’m seriously! As silly as it sounds, it’s true. Depression is caused by external factors. Like the environment or an event or a simple object that reminded you of your darkest times… it always begin outside, then slowly triggers a certain emotion. The emotion grows as you give it attention and In no time it awakens the pain in your heart. Thus become your state of being; what we often call a MOOD.
There was a time when I got so busy with tasks and decided to put self care as my last priority. I didn’t take a shower for 2 contentious days! GROSS I KNOW. But the lesson I learned from this experiment was BIG. I recognised the dramatic mood swing. Showering is a big deal. When showering you’re not only cleaning your body from dirt. But you’re cleansing your energy too. Our aunt sisters understood that water is the key to life. They referred to water as a cleansing tool and use to do what they called SPIRITUAL SHOWERS. Where you perform a normal shower, but while dropping water on your body you imagen the negative toxic energy falling off with the water. As if the water is stripping away the negative energy from your body part.
The danger of not showing regularly goes beyond the spiritual and psychological aspects. When you don’t shower your skin PH becomes disturbed. In addition your skin pores gets blocked. When your skin can’t breath you feel DEAD and develop frustration, anger and depression. Your state of being reflects on the outside; through your attitude and what you attract. Energy thing is energy, so take care of your energy first .
A short advice to those who have Been suffering with depression for a very long time. YOU’RE NOT ALONE. Yet just because it’s common it doesn’t mean you accept it. Get yourself out of it NOW!! Look at your lifestyle and what could possibly be feeding your depression. Is it sad energy you watch on Instagram? Is it your diet or your self esteem? Or is it the fact that you lock yourself at home? .. You see, our anut sisters lived outdoor. They never had electronic devices or OGM food. They listened to their bodies. Thus they never had depression. LIVE AS A HUMAN, LIVE THE RIGHT WAY.
If I would ask you right now, are you free? will you honestly answer yes? Most people deep down know that they didn’t reach the definition of freedom. Maybe the definition itself is the boundary. Maybe you weren’t born a slave to this world but you enslaved yourself by what we call A TITLE. Maybe the roles you play are not a part of life, but a mechanism for limitations.
What is an IDENTITY?
An identity is a title that you inherited by the society based on your Role ( functional role believed by the subconscious mind). in addition, your identity could be based on a place that you THOUGHT you found yourself in. It’s anything we put before it “my “ or “I’m”. The dark side of self identifying is that what you identify yourself with becomes a part of you. Not in reality, but in the subconscious belief system it become WHO YOU ARE . which makes you attached to the tittle. thus you live in a loop of your SELF IDENTITIES and can never become or do something out of that loop. Simply Because your’s strongly attached to it. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom, limits your potential and keeps you fixated instead of being the flexible human being you are .
It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. But when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically opens the door to the truth of who you are. Identities are man made illusions. They’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego . As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusions like fear, over thinking, negativity etc.. TO BREAK FREE YOU MUST LET GO. To rise you must kill what’s holding you down, remember you are your own worst enemy.
Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … You know I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life. But every time I think I’m, I discover I’m actually not independent. He who answered this question as “NO”. Is the closest to the truth; YOU CAN NEVER BE INDEPENDENT.
Sure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need your parents or people etc. Best of all, you will become emotionally independent ( by spiritualgrowth). Emotional independence is the advanced level of independence. It have a strong link with spirituality since emotions are the language of the heart. When you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own (with the help of God only). Emotional independent is the detachment from all external sources. It’s such a POWERFUL state of being and it’s empowered even more with the reliance on God.
The reality is, we can’t achieve full independence. Simply because we’re created as The slaves of god. A slave is always needy. Always Relying on his master. It’s a blessing dont you think ? When you understand that your creator is the sustainer and most generous, you will happily submit to him.
I understand the struggle and your burning desire for change. But Unfortunately, battling is not the right method. YOU CAN’T CHANGE THE NEGATIVE WITH NEGATIVE. In order to obtain real change you must start with changing the source of the problem. Otherwise the problem will keep recurring; because no effective change have been applied. Likewise, To build a strong building, you need a good foundation. we often focus on the problem instead of the source of the problem. Then as reactive beings we try to replace the existing with our perspective, using force. Thus we fail and will keep failing.
Another problem we commit while seeking change, is that we think everything can be solved using Force. while in reality it complicate things even more. TRY USING YOUR ENERGY INSTEAD OF YOUR BODY. Energy can’t be ignored nor avoided. It’s what makes us and the laws of the universe. When you influence a negative source with good energy, you’ll not only succeed in transforming the source. But you will also attract more positive results.
Let me tell you a little story that happened to me a long time ago; We all have that one person who hates us, for no reason. It’s not that he/she spit out their hate, but the repulsive energy they transmit towards you is obvious. Fast forward, I was once put into an event with a person who held such feelings towards me. It’s not like we’ve spoke before. Yet the moment I acknowledged his hate towards me, I began to transmit positive energy ( In the form of thoughts) . Such as ” hey! your safe, your wonderful, your amazing , i love you, you are blessed, I’m peace, I’m not judging you…etc “. I transmitted a combination of love, positivity and healing energy and I kid you not! the situation shifted 360 degrees!!! The person became more relaxed and peaceful. We even became friends later on.
The method I used here is called TELEPATHY COMMUNICATION. I’m not saying that we should always use this technique. My story is only an example that shows you the power of energy. Nevertheless, You can change people using positive energy, in the form of attitude, positive words, thoughts or just A SMILE. To me this’s the true definition of winning, it’s not only by solving a problem but also saving a life. Picking up someone who’s trapped in negatively and giving them light… We’re not here to create enimes, infact we’re ONE. When you harm others you’re indirectly harming yourself. Plus you’re no longer better than them. So use your energy WISELY. 💕
Dreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream; Let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..
Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either. Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem. As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY. Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life. Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.
Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.
Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages. The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up. Instead It’s very peaceful.
I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .