Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … You know I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life. But every time I think I’m, I discover I’m actually not independent. He who answered this question as “NO”. Is the closest to the truth; YOU CAN NEVER BE INDEPENDENT.
Sure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need your parents or people etc. Best of all, you will become emotionally independent ( by spiritualgrowth). Emotional independence is the advanced level of independence. It’s strong linked with spirituality since emotions are the language of the heart. When you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own. You will then develop emotional independent, which is detachment from all external sources. Certainly it’s such a POWERFUL state of being. Yet you are not truly independent .
The reality is, we can’t achieve full independence. Simply because we’re created as The slaves of god. A slave is always needy. Always Replying on his master. It’s a blessed reality when you understand that your creator is the sustainer and most generous. The point i want to get across, is that we’re not meant to be independent in the spiritual world. Plus to successfully achieve independence in the world of form, we need to rely on god. I hope this was a good reminder that will bring you gratitude. 🙏💕 I think we need to remind ourselves every now and then about WHO WE ARE. We often get blinded by the materialistic achievements and develop an ego, which gives us a false sense of power.
Dreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.
So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..
Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either. Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem. As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY. Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life. Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.
Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.
Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up. Instead It’s very peaceful.
I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .
What is the soul? Your soul is yourself. The reality of who you are. Indeed you’re nothing more than a deadless, formless and timeless soul. The idea that when your body get sick, your soul get sick which result into death is incorrect. Instead it’s because of a sick soul the body get sick.
“We’re not a human beings having a spiritual experience, we’re spiritual beings having a human experience. ”
I want you to imagine a building as your body and it’s base as your soul. The building consist of a strong structure yet if something happens to the base the whole building will fall. On the other hand If something happens to the top of the building the base will remain unaffected. The structure of the building can always be rebuilt; but the base can’t be recovered without destroying the entire building including the base.
My point is, a healthy soul is essential for survival. You must have a strong base in Order to overcome all storms. The amazing thing about the human soul is that it doesn’t ask for much! It doesn’t require sleep or food or money etc. It already have a permemnent life. The only thing the soul needs is a connection with it’s creator. Thus a spiritual connection with god is important, it’s the only way the soul can charge itself and stay alive.
How do I practice spiritual Connection ?
Spiritual connection can be done through praying or meditating. Basically setting an alone time with god, taking to him and acknowledging him. The process of god consciousness is a door way for the soul to connect with it’s master. The absence or lack of this process can be described as heaviness in the chest and you can actually tell that your soul desire a connection with god… It’s very intoxicated by the materialistic world, it badly needs to rest.
How is the soul toxicated by the materialistic world?
The soul is of different nature than the body. The things that the body enjoy and desire; will not satisfy the soul. For example you see people with a sick soul and are very concentrated on the body needs. They arrive at a certain point where their soul breaks. Thus they try to heal it using all the materialistic things in this world but it just never heals.
An angel he was, with a beautiful brave eyes. Soft lips and silky flying hair. I love it when he smile and more when he’s asleep. I love myself in his arms and when he look at me with his sexy eyes. I love his soft beautiful skin. I laugh at his joke because I can’t help but to smile.
He made me dream! He makes me believe in the unseen…. His love makes me touch the clouds. Sometimes I fear it would all end. I fear the reality of life. The bitter truth. Yet once again i get lost in his eyes.
He think of himself as a curse and try to be the darkness. But I clearly see him shin. I know his truth. I know his mine. Maybe this’s the reason I’M FINE, dispute him carelessly livining.
I wish he could see my love. I wish he would understand. I’ll always be waiting for him to come home. I just pray he find me wherever I am.
Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.
How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people:
1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.
2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.
3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .
4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.
5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.
6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .
7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.
For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.
As i mentioned in part 1 of this blog, about how to become healtheir in the aspect of food and beauty care. In this blog i will be talking about how to control diseases, in other words what is the core of diseases.
During my irritable bowel disease IBD, i discovered another defect! Unfortunately in the medicine industry. It took the doctors 3 years to diagnose my IBD. The whole experience was horrible!!! It made me develop a hate for hospitals. Long story short, I noticed that medication became more like BUSINESS and less of a HEALTH CARE. The way the doctors played the “COME BACK LATER” game was DISGUSTING. Indeed, how little they care about people’s health and how little they fulfil their duty is very disturbing; to watch doctors who are suppose to be the WORLD’S LIFE SAVERS are instead not caring at all or trying to kill their patients! I had more than one doctor telling me “ Leave because your case is not as dangerous as cancer ”. I kid you not this was a private expensive hospital.
Emphatically I learned valuable lessons from this experience. one of which in this century it’s best if one return to nature for healing. In nature one can find EVERYTHING he needs. Stocks of Nature are enough to heal an illness and keep wellness. I realised that all diseases are cased and depending on these 4 key factors:
- Phycology .
- Healthy diet .
- Spirtual health.
You see, Healing is 70% psychology, 25% food and 5 % medication. Sometimes you won’t even need the 5%. Because every disease begins in the mind. You might be taking extra care of your health but if you are thinking , visualising and feeling illness before it happen. You’re basically manifesting it. All my life i stuck with a healthy lifestyle, yet no matter what i did I always ended up getting sick more than the average person. Until I had the courage to become fully honest with myself; i was subconsciously desiring death and illness, like a thirsty child in the desert.
Non of my healthy eating tips will benefit you if you aren’t willing to get healthy. So acknowledge the hidden repulsive desire for illness and start doing this: label a cup “Abundant Health ” using a sticky note. Every morning drink the recipe (I’m going to prepare with you right now) in this cup. But before you drink it imagen and feel how it’s like to become 100% healthy. While concentrating on the cup. Put all your energy in this cup, then drink!
RECIPE: In a cup add…
- 1 tsp of ANISE seeds.
- 1/2 tsp of fennel seeds.
- 1/2 tsp of cumin seeds.
- 1 tsp of raw honey ( optional).
- 1 tsp of green tea ( optional)
- Add boiled water .
MUST PREPARE THE DRINK AT NIGHT & LEAVE OVERNIGHT, THEN DRINK THE FOLLOWING MORNING WITH SQUEEZED LEMON JUICE .
I want you to wield this recipe, because I have seen wonders using this drink. I was permanently cured from IBD and premature menopause a few months after constantly drinking the recipe. Also my dad saw a drop in cholesterol, balance in testosterone level and cure of digestive issues. Beside the benefits of this drink, what I asked you to do before drinking it, Is basically manifesting health. So when you drink the recipe it won’t target just physical health. But your subconscious desire for illness as well. Give it a try & share your results with me in the comments below.
I know you’re here to improve your health but before I reveal the secret to an infinite health; i want to share with you my journey towards a healthy lifestyle.
Lets talk food! It all begun in middle school when I was obese (89 kg). I still remember how I hated the feeling of my thighs touching each other! I wanted to cut my fats with a scissor, literally this is how fast I desired to get rid of my fats. Fast forward i dropped from 89kg to 44 kg in 3 months. I BECAME INSANE! I was slowly drifting into the path of Anorexia. But luckily saved myself out of it, by not following any DIET. Instead I listen to my body. Through it i learned that someone’s diet might not work for you. Indeed our bodies are different. Don’t blindly following others! Experiment with yourself to see what works for you. I believe all these diets are out there for us to benefit from. For example; I have a very sensitive stomach where i can’t digest most things. So a vegan diet worked well for me. White my sister is un-vegan and doing just fine. WE DONT HAVE THE SAME PATH. ACCEPT YOUR DIFFERENCES AND SEEK KNOWLEDGE .
In order to modify your eating habit you need to learn about food. About the benefits and danger of food. This way you limit the excuses of the mind. A general ruling that differentiate good from bad, is the sun. The longer the food is exposed to the sun. The healthier it is. Making green vegetables the most nutritious. While food made in laboratory contain mostly empty calories ( un-nutritions ). I mean JUNK FOOD is called JUNK for a reason. For more information , check Dr Sebi- alkaline food .
Through out my life i found so many things are best as ORGANIC OPTION, that we are fooled by many companies who just want to sell their product. For example the idea of using a shampoo! Our aunt sisters never used a shampoo to keep their hair strong and healthy. Instead they used natural substances like olive oil, coconut oil, milk and egg ( for hair mask). What’s funnier is that every time i washed my hair with shampoo it got more damaged. When i replaced my shampoo with apple cider vinegar, the change was astounding! I surmounted my dead hair! What makes home remedies IDEAL is that they suit everyone. My friend who have a straight hair got the same AMAZING result when using Apple cider vinegar.
- Add 2 to 3 tsp of apple cider vinegar in a cup of water .
- wash your hair with Apple cider vinegar.
- Wait 1-2 mins then rinse with water.
- As a result your hair should be strong and shiny.
In case of over use of ACV (acidic) your hair might feel a little too rough, you can balance the error by using a raw food hair mask ( works as a conditioner) or coconut oil / olive oil after the shower. GET CREATIVE! IF YOU CAN’T THEN EMULATE OUR AUNT SISTERS.
I think the greatest disease of our time is following others. People don’t question anything anymore! It’s the norm to follow everything and if you ask someone “why are you doing this .. ?” they would simply answer with “because everybody is doing it ” or something between the words “It seems cool”… absolute zero logic.
Have you ever wondered about the reason behind celebrating christmas? The reason behind Muslims wearing head scarf “hijab”? Or why Jewish people kiss the doorpost on entering a room ( whether there’s a mezuza or not). Maybe dive into history with an open mind and the intention of learning. Always ask “why”. ONLY WHEN WE COME TO UNDERSTAND THE PAST, WE CAN BUILD A BETTER FUTURE.
The problem with NO curiosity is that it shut you down as a human. You become insignificant. Without a voice. Just a follower. A number that’s used to benefit those who do have a voice. You also don’t use your brain at all! which’s in an insult to your power.
No curiosity = inactive mind = equivalent to animals.
I’m not saying protest against culture. I’m just saying have a learning mentality. Question things and find the answer. At least when you take a part into culture practices, you can enjoy it and feel it deep in your heart. Inaddition knowledge is meant to spread. The more you learn the more you will become a teacher and then bring spiritual satisfaction into your life.
TO HELP YOU HAVE TO LEARN AND TO BE YOU HAVE TO BECOME .
Your body can do anything your mind command it to do. Your mind is your limitation. If you continue doing something at a constant pace with NO MIND ( no thinking) you can go on until infinity.
This’s how an athlete finished the race with a broken leg. How humans do the “impossible “. It’s not that they’re any special, but they have learned to not give attention to the things that stops them. Fear, physical pain and self doubt are mental limitations that shows up when your about to do something new. They’re fight or flight response from your mind to stop you and keep you “safe”.
In order to overcome these intense signals you must shut down the mind! Mute the mind. Don’t think of the pain or your surroundings. Don’t distract yourself with future or past thoughts either. Because if you do so you’re not effectively by passing the physical pain ( mental limitations), you’re disattaching yourself from your entire physical body. This might be dangerous in such case’s like sports. In other words lossing sense of your legs when your heavy lifting might make your posture colaps!
The goal of by passing physical pain is being mentally present at the same time unaffected by the physical pain. In order to reach such stage you must ;
1. Have a strong believe in yourself.
2. Mute the mind .
3. Continue the action you’re doing at the moment with constant momentum. Means constant velocity and infinit time.
4. Self talk, if needed!
Note: Self talking is a quality that require harmony with one self. It’s usually present in those you believe in themselves. However, it holds no difficulties. One should just accept , love and forgive himself.
To conclude, limitation are within you not outside of you. You create your limitations through your mind. The time and opertunities of the external world is infinite. It’s your choice to live with limitations or limitless.
As soon as we give birth our mindset shift from ” free ” to “responsible “. As if a heavy weight is dropped on us. The ego find this an opportunity to grow, so it fool us into defining us with the parenting role. Thus a mother will play the mother role on her kids and gets extremely angry if treated otherwise, because right now it’s not just a role! it’s her identity. WHO SHE IS. Obviously this creates a lot of problems within a family. Parents clinging their kids freedom, Abusing and unfairly dealing with their kids under the role of “parents”. Furthermore, the kids grow up irresponsible, indecisive , lacking personality and independence… Never recovered from the role of ” child ” that was forced by the parents.
Parents! I understand the profound love you’ve for your children. Yet true love can never be expressed through the ego. The ego always seek conflicts to validate itself. The role of a parent is nothing more than a tool for the ego to stay alive inside you and keep you attached. Inaddition the superior parent role creates a boundary between the child and his parent. Any relationship that include the ego is inauthentic.
If you really love your kid and concerned about him/ her, ask yourself these questions every time you catch yourself in the role of parenting.
1. Did I like it when my parents did this to me ?
2. Is their another way I can make my kid understand my message ?
3. WHO is the better teacher experience or what I’m going to say right now ?
4. What’s the worst case scenario my kid can cause ?
5. Is my action and words showing love or the opposite?
6. Do i really want my kid to become the best or be himself ?
You can still be a parent without playing the role of a parent! Give your kids love , give them care & knowledge but through friendship. Become their life companion and not as a superior parent. The best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. Be real. ONLY REAL THINGS CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS.
Let life teach them! yes, I understand you dont want your kids to do the same mistakes you’ve done. But let’s be real; did you learn through experience or words ? Don’t forget that your experience made you into who you are today. Therefore, give your kids SPACE. Let them be, experience and grow. SPACE is truly the most thing they need. Let go of your attachment to the ego Now! for the sake of your children.