I’m not here to judge you or tell you what’s right from wrong. I’m here to ask you one question, what did you keep for your lover?
It’s very easy nowadays to FOLLOW. We follow fashion and trends without questioning anything. We show a little skin and say it’s ok. We show too much skin and say it’s ok. We lose ourselves and say it’s ok … We hurt ourselves and others but it must be ok. Everything is ok nowadays, immorality and shamelessness is just OK. Until we meet the love of our life, the one we want to give the world to. The one we love more than ourselves. The one that makes us realise we have nothing left to give. Because we gave it all to the world, Blinded by the media and addicted to attention.
So I will ask you again ladies and gentlemen, what did you keep for your suppose? What will prove to them that they’re special? What gift did you save for them and only them ? I hope you open your eyes before it’s too late. I pray you work for what’s meaningful and long lasting. Because you deserve the best. YOU’RE VALUABLE.❤
Where is the love ? Is it in the things you buy? Is it in your spouse? Is it in nature ? Or in food? Love is within you. It’s not an emotion or a an image ..a person ….a thing …a feeling etc. Love is energy. It’s the compound of life. Where there is love there is life.
When you like someone you’re selfish. You want to own them. You don’t care if you hurt them through fulfilling your desire. But when you love someone you’re selfless. You care only about their happiness, even if it mean sacrificing your own. Its important to understand that love is pure, it’s from God. Only God can sustain you with love. Before you say you love someone test yourself with the explanation above. Inaddition see if you can LET GO of the person you love. If you failed, then I’m sorry to say YOU DON’T LOVE HIM / HER. Love shouldn’t make you needy. Once attachment is involved it’s not love but a lack in self-esteem. The sense of being incomplete.
Love is infinite. It shouldn’t fade or die simply because energy doesn’t die. Love is a strong nourishing energy that build life on earth. The love in your heart can increase as you ascend through levels of consciousness. Thus many individuals experience a shift in personality after waking up, from bitter and selfish to selfless and compassionate. The love in their hearts have been activated. They then attract more love by practicing love and so forth.
The moral of this blog is; don’t look for love, your not missing it! It’s within you. Just activate it through 2 things;
1. connecting with the true source of love, GOD.
2. Manifesting more love into your life through your actions .
What is the soul? Your soul is yourself. The reality of who you are. Indeed you’re nothing more than a deadless, formless and timeless soul. The idea that when your body get sick, your soul get sick which result into death is incorrect. Instead it’s because of a sick soul the body get sick.
“We’re not a human beings having a spiritual experience, we’re spiritual beings having a human experience. ”
I want you to imagine a building as your body and it’s base as your soul. The building consist of a strong structure yet if something happens to the base the whole building will fall. On the other hand If something happens to the top of the building the base will remain unaffected. The structure of the building can always be rebuilt; but the base can’t be recovered without destroying the entire building including the base.
My point is, a healthy soul is essential for survival. You must have a strong base in Order to overcome all storms. The amazing thing about the human soul is that it doesn’t ask for much! It doesn’t require sleep or food or money etc. It already have a permemnent life. The only thing the soul needs is a connection with it’s creator. Thus a spiritual connection with god is important, it’s the only way the soul can charge itself and stay alive.
How do I practice spiritual Connection ?
Spiritual connection can be done through praying or meditating. Basically setting an alone time with god, taking to him and acknowledging him. The process of god consciousness is a door way for the soul to connect with it’s master. The absence or lack of this process can be described as heaviness in the chest and you can actually tell that your soul desire a connection with god… It’s very intoxicated by the materialistic world, it badly needs to rest.
How is the soul toxicated by the materialistic world?
The soul is of different nature than the body. The things that the body enjoy and desire; will not satisfy the soul. For example you see people with a sick soul and are very concentrated on the body needs. They arrive at a certain point where their soul breaks. Thus they try to heal it using all the materialistic things in this world but it just never heals.
Your body can do anything your mind command it to do. Your mind is your limitation. If you continue doing something at a constant pace with NO MIND ( no thinking) you can go on until infinity.
This’s how an athlete finished the race with a broken leg. How humans do the “impossible “. It’s not that they’re any special, but they have learned to not give attention to the things that stops them. Fear, physical pain and self doubt are mental limitations that shows up when your about to do something new. They’re fight or flight response from your mind to stop you and keep you “safe”.
In order to overcome these intense signals you must shut down the mind! Mute the mind. Don’t think of the pain or your surroundings. Don’t distract yourself with future or past thoughts either. Because if you do so you’re not effectively by passing the physical pain ( mental limitations), you’re disattaching yourself from your entire physical body. This might be dangerous in such case’s like sports. In other words lossing sense of your legs when your heavy lifting might make your posture colaps!
The goal of by passing physical pain is being mentally present at the same time unaffected by the physical pain. In order to reach such stage you must ;
1. Have a strong believe in yourself.
2. Mute the mind .
3. Continue the action you’re doing at the moment with constant momentum. Means constant velocity and infinit time.
4. Self talk, if needed!
Note: Self talking is a quality that require harmony with one self. It’s usually present in those you believe in themselves. However, it holds no difficulties. One should just accept , love and forgive himself.
To conclude, limitation are within you not outside of you. You create your limitations through your mind. The time and opertunities of the external world is infinite. It’s your choice to live with limitations or limitless.
As soon as we give birth our mindset shift from ” free ” to “responsible “. As if a heavy weight is dropped on us. The ego find this an opportunity to grow, so it fool us into defining us with the parenting role. Thus a mother will play the mother role on her kids and gets extremely angry if treated otherwise, because right now it’s not just a role! it’s her identity. WHO SHE IS. Obviously this creates a lot of problems within a family. Parents clinging their kids freedom, Abusing and unfairly dealing with their kids under the role of “parents”. Furthermore, the kids grow up irresponsible, indecisive , lacking personality and independence… Never recovered from the role of ” child ” that was forced by the parents.
Parents! I understand the profound love you’ve for your children. Yet true love can never be expressed through the ego. The ego always seek conflicts to validate itself. The role of a parent is nothing more than a tool for the ego to stay alive inside you and keep you attached. Inaddition the superior parent role creates a boundary between the child and his parent. Any relationship that include the ego is inauthentic.
If you really love your kid and concerned about him/ her, ask yourself these questions every time you catch yourself in the role of parenting.
1. Did I like it when my parents did this to me ?
2. Is their another way I can make my kid understand my message ?
3. WHO is the better teacher experience or what I’m going to say right now ?
4. What’s the worst case scenario my kid can cause ?
5. Is my action and words showing love or the opposite?
6. Do i really want my kid to become the best or be himself ?
You can still be a parent without playing the role of a parent! Give your kids love , give them care & knowledge but through friendship. Become their life companion and not as a superior parent. The best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. Be real. ONLY REAL THINGS CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS.
Let life teach them! yes, I understand you dont want your kids to do the same mistakes you’ve done. But let’s be real; did you learn through experience or words ? Don’t forget that your experience made you into who you are today. Therefore, give your kids SPACE. Let them be, experience and grow. SPACE is truly the most thing they need. Let go of your attachment to the ego Now! for the sake of your children.
So you are depressed! Let me ask you a few questions before you scroll down. Why are you depression? Do you actually care about the “thing” that made you depressed? Do you think you can control your life & your depression?
Often people say “You can’t control what happen in the external world, but you can control what happens inside of you” what if I told you you actually can control the your external reality, and that it’s nothing but a reflection of your inner state of being. The only reason you’re depressed is because you always focus on the negative and what you focuse on you will shall find. It’s a simple a this!
The truth is there’s no good or bad , instead everything is neutral in nature. Our mind is the instrument that define good and bad. When your mind patterns is defining everything as BAD no wonder why you’re depressed!. Negative thinking patterns develop negative low emotions such as sadness, depression, anixity and madness..etc These emotions then develop a reaction and the reaction become your reality. You’re reaction controls the event, the event doesn’t ontrol your reaction. For example when you’re stuck in a traffic jam you can simply enjoy the sunset view, turning this moment into joy or focuse on the crowd and build up frustration.
The key of happiness is to look at everything as it is. With a neutral perspective. No judgment. Exactly how Shakespeare said ” NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BUT THINKING MAKES IT SO ” .
This is the absolute life reality. No situation is either good or bad. Instead our thoughts are what define the situation. When you start perceiving things from a neutral perspective you will realise the sense of ease. Because you’re accepting the situation as it is, which allows the energy to flow. There’re no resistance or negativity. It’s such a blessing of inner peace! Furthermore, neutrality is obtained with a very high vibration, (a high level of consciousness). Thus you can’t effortlessly achieve a neutral mentality. Yet you can practice neutrality by being aware of your judgement.
Catch yourself when you judge a situation as good or bad. Then ask yourself the reason behind your judgement. At this moment it will become clearer to you, that it’s your mind and not the reality of the situation. Now! try to look at the situation from a neutral eye; to do so you must search for the good and the bad. Once the two possibilities are present in a situation you’re basically tricking your mind into opening a door of CHOICE. Your mind can no longer play the victim mentality. But you’re now in control and freedom of choice. You can either choose to react positively or negatively.
My sister have spent her entire life hanging from one job to another. In every job she repeated the same phrase ” I’m not happy ” . My sister wasn’t a slave to the system. She had courage to stand up for herself. She did so when she found herself unhappy with a certain job. But she couldn’t quit the old fashioned mentality! She was like any human, looking for happiness & success. She was someone who believed happiness & success exist with a common job, especially in a super developed city. My sister failed to realise what she’s looking for is in fact easy to achieve; and found with in .
“DON’T ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO THE WORLD, ASK WHAT MAKES YOU ALIVE .” This’s one of my favourite quotes plus the reason for my sister’s dissatisfaction. Non of the positions she obtained were fulfilling her, simply because she wasn’t living her life mission. We’re all born with a gift. A gift that’s suppose to be used for the service of others. Everybody’s gift is different. However, in order to find what your gift is; you must discover who you are not. When you know who you are not , who you are will become clearer.
Note : Don’t confuse your gift with passion or interests! One of the common mistakes nowadays is that people have too many interests. So they run around trying to do everything. While you can only get excellent at one thing, Which is your gift.
But How do I find my gift / purpose in life faster? Experience.
A wise man once told me on my way to Africa; to welcome all experiences and go through them UNTIL THE END. Finish them ! … This was back then when I had the habit of jumping around from one thing to the next.
The more you experience the better you know what not to do, which later guide you to your purpose. Dont take failing as something too seriouse. You’re not worthless! Your failure is for two reasons, either the thing you failed in is not meant for you ( not your purpose) or it is your purpose in life, but you’re on the road of learning. EMBRACE AND LOVE EVERY FAILURE, BECAUSE EVERY FAILURE IS A STEP FORWARD.
You will know your purpose. Be patient. I’m confidently saying this because it’s within you; Your truth and all you need is within you. There’s nothing easier to find than what is already inside you. Always follow your gut feeling. Also what I said earlier about feeling alive. Then add to the equation “How can I serve others “…Anddddd booom!! There you have it. The first thought is the answer. Now put it into experience & see what happens.
Everywhere I went I found broken pieces of beautiful hearts. I tried to become the key to EVERY door. But is it possible? Can one free all?
I know the power within me is far beyond the limits. “It seems like a hard task ” my inner doubt whisper, as I became more desperate for the mission.
Book after book, I thought i was ready! I took every shot that life grant me. However, the results didn’t satisfy me .
Finally on a cold night. I realised that one does free all. But it can’t be me or you. It must be the one above us ALL.
Love is a positive attracting energy. If you give love you’re not going to only receive love in return, but you will receive peace, fulfilment and happiness too. Energys of the same frequently flow togerher. When you transmit love it will attract other positive energies that align with it.
Why love remain while everything else vanish through time ?
It’s because love have to do with our state of being. Have you heard of “GOD IS LOVE “. it’s drived from the feeling of oneness that love gives. We’re one with the universe. This’s the human truth. Love is an energy that guide to the state of oneness. It’s a power that connect souls and gather hearts.
Love is so POWERFUL because of it’s permenent effect on being. Once you receive or give the energy of love you feel a deep peace, beauty and stillness. Basically you get enlightened. Your state of consciousness shift to a very high level where love is. Thus you become very alert.
At a small village in Africa a rule of love is found. Which is; when someone does something wrong or commit a crime. The entire village gather with the criminal at the center and They begin to mention all the good things he/ she have done. Aiming to bring the criminal back to his good self.
It’s fascinating how they’re aware of the power of love. Most importantly they understand that the human is born pure and By simply connecting him back to his natural state all his impurities will fall off.
It’s sad how we limit yourselves with a loop of our “Self identity”. When we’re limitless beings with limitless potential. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom. You become ruled my the unconscious Ego .
What is an IDENTITY?
An identity is a tittle that you inherited by the society based on your Role / function . It’s also all the places you searched for yourself in. It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. But when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically opens the door to the truth of who you are .
Identities are man made illusions. They’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego . As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusions like fear , over thinking , negativity …etc
Once you win the guts to cross your identity loop you’ll achieve salvation, fulfilment and being present in the now .