I understand the struggle and your burning desire for change.
But Unfortunately, battling is not the right method. YOU CAN’T CHANGE THE NEGATIVE WITH NEGATIVE. In order to obtain real change you must start with changing the source of the problem. Otherwise the problem will keep recurring; because no effective change have been applied. Likewise, To build a strong building, you need a good foundation. we often focus on the problem instead of the source of the problem. Then as reactive beings we try to replace the existing with our perspective, using force. Thus we fail and will keep failing.
Another problem we commit while seeking change, is that we think everything can be solved using Force. while in reality it complicate things even more. TRY USING YOUR ENERGY INSTEAD OF YOUR BODY. Energy can’t be ignored nor avoided. It’s what makes us and the laws of the universe. When you influence a negative source with good energy, you’ll not only succeed in transforming the source. But you will also attract more positive results.
Let me tell you a little story that happened to me a long time ago; We all have that one person who hates us, for no reason. It’s not that he/she spit out their hate, but the repulsive energy they transmit towards you is obvious. Fast forward, I was once put into an event with a person who held such feelings towards me. It’s not like we’ve spoke before. Yet the moment I acknowledged his hate towards me, I began to transmit positive energy ( In the form of thoughts) . Such as ” hey! your safe, your wonderful, your amazing , i love you, you are blessed, I’m peace, I’m not judging you…etc “. I transmitted a combination of love, positivity and healing energy and I kid you not! the situation shifted 360 degrees!!! The person became more relaxed and peaceful. We even became friends later on.
The method I used here is called TELEPATHY COMMUNICATION. I’m not saying that we should always use this technique. My story is only an example that shows you the power of energy. Nevertheless, You can change people using positive energy, in the form of attitude, positive words, thoughts or just A SMILE. To me this’s the true definition of winning, it’s not only by solving a problem but also saving a life. Picking up someone who’s trapped in negatively and giving them light… We’re not here to create enimes, infact we’re ONE. When you harm others you’re indirectly harming yourself. Plus you’re no longer better than them. So use your energy WISELY. 💕
Dreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.
So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..
Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either. Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem. As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY. Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life. Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.
Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.
Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up. Instead It’s very peaceful.
I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .
Nobody is hurting us. Instead we hurt ourselves through others. If we don’t turn our focus inward & become conscious of our nature. We’ll allow the past to repeat it’s patterns.
What do you mean by our nature?
The human nature is pure but the ego pollute it. The ego is with each one of us “Humans are like the moon, with a bright side and a dark side”. This is absolutely true. We all have an ego. Some activate it and others don’t. The ego is a basically your DARK SIDE. It feed on negative / low energy. Such as anger, drama, fear, sadness, conflicts, hate and jealousy ..etc.
How does it feed on these emotions? The ego see such emotional state as a chance to activate itself through it. So you find yourself getting angry over little meaningless things or get offended by everything.. etc. If so, understand that it’s not you but your ego trying to take over you. Once the ego activate itself it grow, which makes it powerful. If you allow it to keep growing through the negativity; it will eventually control you.
People who are driven by the ego are very reactive. Their ego jumps as soon as it finds an opportunity for conflicts or drama. Another nature of the ego is that it’s an ego! It only validate itself and it’s not fair. It takes a conscious alert self to admit a mistake. Ego is unconsciousness. It’s not your true self, instead your dark side. Therefore, I excuse unconscious people for their actions. I think we should all do so after learning about the ego. However, the ego can be defeated. Battling the ego require time and constant consciousness.
To fight the ego you must BECOME CONSCIOUS OF IT. Yes! As simple as this. All you should do is become alert of it when it’s present. Absorve your ego at the moment of anger or drama. When you notice the ege it shrink in size. Thus by time the ego will diminish.
How do I know I’m ego_free ?
The state of no-ego; This state is the state of total awareness and self control. It’s inner peace & calmness. After you have finally won over the ego. You will experience such life changing bless❤.
The state of grace is also known as the state of light or enlightenment. Some call it the love of God, because it’s the state where God’s light is within you. The highest state of consciousness one can reach! And exactly as it’s called light , you actually SHIN. You become light to others & transmit light everywhere you go.
Your presence become intensely distructive. Since your vibrating in an extremely high energy filed of love, joy and peace. Thus negative people will not be able to withstand your vibration. Not only people of lower energy but also any type of negative energy. Such as fear, anixity, anger, depression.. stress etc. Will no longer exist or in other words will not be able to exist in your life.
This’s what we call the benefit of enlightenment 🙌.
Your sharp consciousness will protect you from the negative fields of others by raising the frequency vibration of you energy field, that anything vibrating at a lower frequency now exists in a virtually a different order of reality.
On the other hand, you will attract certain people. Those with an alert consciousness or escalating in consciousness. Indeed even in the times of the prophets those who got attracted to the message of the massagers and seeked religion where those of who are conscious. So as you desire to help and have reached the state of compassion you will become blessed with those who listen to you. Those who will receive your light and pass it on. It’s a beautiful thing isn’t it ? Even more wonderful realising all this beauty is the beauty of God … The light ..The ease ..The love. What a blessing to become alive!
In reverse , All the energies you transmit will flow your way. If you give love you will attract love etc. when you’re in harmony with the universe, you’ll be surprised at how fast and easy opportunities come to you.
Now that you had a sneak peek on the state of absolute oness. You shall stay more present In order to rise you consciousness. You don’t have to be super conscious to help others. You can still help, impact and influence in your current state of being . Only through goodness one can grow in vibration.
I was right for thinking that I can control the majority of things. I successfully did control my thoughts, energy , emotion, desires, body and situations. The only thing I couldn’t control was LOVE. The crazy love that steals your heart without permission and fades away. I’m not talking about a “crush” or affection. I’m talking about the love of a twin flame. The love that overcome gravity! This kind of love is pure and beyond all forces. Thus a twin flame physical separation is not a separation! NOTHING REAL IS EVER LOST, AND NOTHING THAT IS LOST WAS EVER REAL.
You don’t lose your twin flame! Because he/she is YOU. When I got separated from my twin flame. I realised that he was inside me all along. He’s a part of me. Which makes it harder to forget. But you don’t have to forget!! You need to accept the reality. Acceptance is the key to energy flow. As long as you’re holding resistance or any negative behaviour your blocking the cycle of life from moving forward. This blockage can cause you illness and never end the separation.
Furthermore, when you accept everything and let life be. Things will come to you. New opportunities. New experiences. Wiser you. Always keep at the bottom of your mind that if something is DESTINED for you it’s going to come to you, And will never in million years can be in someone else’s hand. TRUST GOD. TRUST THE UNIVERSE.
Basically you didn’t love and lost. You loved and learned … and still loving. The separation of your twin flame is nothing but a plane of god; to help both of you grow into the best version of yourselves. So Let the universe do it’s thing while you appreciate the blessings of life . ❤