True independence 🎯

20190216_220852Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … You know I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life. But every time I think I’m, I discover I’m actually not independent.  He who answered this question as “NO”.  Is the closest to the truth; YOU CAN NEVER BE INDEPENDENT.

 

20190216_221333.jpgSure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need your parents or people etc.  Best of all, you will become emotionally independent ( by spiritualgrowth).  Emotional independence is the advanced level of independence.  It’s strong linked with spirituality since emotions are the language of the heart.  When you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own.  You will then develop emotional independent, which is detachment from all external sources. Certainly it’s such a POWERFUL state of being. Yet you are not truly independent .

 

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The reality is, we can’t achieve full independence. Simply because we’re created as The slaves of god.  A slave is always needy. Always Replying on his master. It’s a blessed reality when you understand that your creator is the sustainer and most generous.  The point i want to get across, is that we’re not meant to be independent in the spiritual world. Plus to successfully achieve independence in the world of form, we need to rely on god.  I hope this was a good reminder that will bring you gratitude. 🙏💕  I think we need to remind ourselves every now and then about WHO WE ARE.  We often get blinded by the materialistic achievements and develop an ego, which gives us a false sense of power.

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How to understand your own dream.🎑

IMG_20190130_221629_824.jpgDreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.

 

So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..

 

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Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either.  Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem.  As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY.  Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life.  Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.

 

Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than  emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.

 

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Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up.  Instead It’s very peaceful.

I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.  Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .

What the world say, is not your reality. 👁⚡

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I was in a gathering the other day where everybody BRAGED. Showing off what they have and did. Naturally I just don’t like talking about myself, especially showing off. So i stayed silent. The following days I realized the change in attitude. Obviously the one who showed off the most or in the society’s eyes is “Great” and “Wealthy ” was given respect and honnor. Where for me I was discounted. As a result I got taken by the negativity, not that they harmed me but the act of racism or segregation by itself is negative.

 

 

Just because i dont show off my greatness, doesnt mean i’m not great“.  This thought bought me back to my senses. It’s insane how we can think less of ourselves and believe in other’s opinion of us. Yet worst, make it our reality.  We live in an age where Trend is stronger than one’s own voice.  Indeed, the society tremendously influence how we perceive ourselves.  THE ASCH CONFORMITY EXPERIMENT;  is a psychological experiment done in the 1950’s. The experiment revealed the degree to which a person’s opinion is influenced by those of groups. It proved that the society can suppress our voice. In fact, people were willing to ignore the reality and give an incorrect answer inorder to conform to the rest of the group. See for yourself >

 

 

You’re great and you don’t need to prove it!  No, you don’t need to mimic the fales greatness ( The Greatness measured with materialistic properties, which motivate us to show off and brag instead of  act and impact). Greatness is already within you. The true greatness.  At the end the only memory will be left of you after you die, is the memories you gave to others.  Not your big house or your fancy cars, But how many hearts did you touch. To conclude, just think wiser and become aware of the effect on society on your mind.

ANTI-SOCIAL  BEHAVIOUR IS AN ACT OF INTELLIGENCE IN A WORLD FULL OF CONFORMIST _ Nikola Tesla.

 

 

Signs of fake people👣🕶🕵️‍♀️🕵️‍♂️

 

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Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.

 

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How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people:

1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.

2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.

3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .

4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.

5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.

6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .

7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.

For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.

How to become more patience.🌸🧘‍♀️🏝

20181211_213526The good will come to you, if you’re patient enough. Patience is hard yet it assures you with a huge reward. Becoming patient is not any kind of superpower, it’s indeed easy.  The difference between a patient person and a non-patient or reactive person lies on the mind.  He who’s aware of the flow of life
Will tend to be patient. He understands that within every situation there’s the part (for you ) to deal with & the uncontrollable part; the part of the superior power.
After you have used your part wisely the rest must be accepted. The accepting process is translated into patience/ surrender.  More of letting life flow as it is. Without resistance or rush.

 

20181211_213502.jpgEverybody can become patient by fully trusting and believing in the cycle of life. What I said earlier, which is Things will fall into place if you just wait and after you have done your part fully.  As relaxing as it sound it’s true. The strong belief in the universe & god is the key to patience.  Because it brings a sense of control. Pulse aligne your energy with what you desire.

 

If you want a positive outcome from a situation your energy must align with it, in order to attract it. Thus when your vibration is low / negative based on anger , stress or depression. Even if you’re seeking your desired outcome through action it won’t come to you. Because you’re pushing it away instead of attracting it ! You need to align with it first..

 

20181211_213601Now you understood how your mental state plays a big part in your life. You shall do your deeds and surrender to the universe. As you’re patiently waiting, enjoy the journey.  Your positive state of being will grow & attract more positive things! Things that you didn’t ask for or imagined.  These what we call Blessings.

Do you have a miserable job?? …Read this. 👠👔🕛

iStock_000015778244XSmall-425x272.jpgMy sister have spent her entire life hanging from one job to another. In every job she repeated the same phrase ” I’m not happy ” . My sister wasn’t a slave to the system. She had courage to stand up for herself.  She did so when she found herself unhappy with a certain job. But she couldn’t quit the old fashioned mentality! She was like any human, looking for happiness & success. She was someone who believed happiness & success exist with a common job, especially in a super developed city.  My sister failed to realise what she’s looking for is in fact easy to achieve; and found with in .

 

“DON’T ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO THE WORLD, ASK WHAT MAKES YOU ALIVE .”  This’s one of my favourite quotes plus the reason for my sister’s dissatisfaction. Non of the positions she obtained were fulfilling her, simply because she wasn’t living her life mission. We’re all born with a gift. A gift that’s suppose to be used for the service of others. Everybody’s gift is different.  However, in order to find what your gift is; you must discover who you are not. When you know who you are not , who you are will become clearer.

Note : Don’t confuse your gift with passion or interests! One of the common mistakes nowadays is that people have too many interests. So they run around trying to do everything. While you can only get excellent at one thing, Which is your gift.

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But How do I find my gift / purpose in life faster? Experience.
A wise man once told me on my way to Africa; to welcome all experiences and go through them UNTIL THE END.  Finish them ! … This was back then when I had the habit of jumping around from one thing to the next.
The more you experience the better you know what not to do, which later guide you to your purpose. Dont take failing as something too seriouse. You’re not worthless! Your failure is for two reasons, either the thing you failed in is not meant for you ( not your purpose) or it is your purpose in life, but you’re on the road of learning. EMBRACE AND LOVE EVERY FAILURE, BECAUSE EVERY FAILURE IS A STEP FORWARD.

 

You will know your purpose. Be patient.        I’m confidently saying this because it’s within you; Your truth and all you need is within you.  There’s nothing easier to find than what is already inside you.  Always follow your gut feeling. Also what I said earlier about feeling alive.  Then add to the equation “How can I serve others “…Anddddd booom!! There you have it. The first thought is the answer. Now put it into experience & see what happens.

What is love ?

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Love is a positive attracting energy. If you give love you’re not going to only receive love in return, but you will receive peace, fulfilment and happiness too.  Energys of the same frequently flow togerher. When you transmit love it will attract other positive energies that align with it.

 

Why love remain while everything else vanish through time ?

It’s because love have to do with our state of being.  Have you heard of  “GOD IS LOVE “. it’s drived from the feeling of oneness that love gives. We’re one with the universe. This’s the human truth.  Love is an energy that guide to the state of oneness.  It’s a power that connect souls and gather hearts.

 

Love is so POWERFUL because of it’s permenent effect on being. Once you receive or give the energy of love you feel a deep peace, beauty and stillness. Basically you get enlightened. Your state of consciousness shift to a very high level where love is. Thus you become very alert.

 

At a small village in Africa a rule of love is found. Which is; when someone does something wrong or commit a crime. The entire village gather with the criminal at the center and They begin to mention all the good things he/ she have done. Aiming to bring the criminal back to his good self.
It’s fascinating how they’re aware of the power of love. Most importantly they understand that the human is born pure and By simply connecting him back to his natural state all his impurities will fall off.

Let go of self identification ✳👁

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It’s sad how we limit yourselves with a loop of our “Self identity”. When we’re limitless beings with limitless potential. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom. You become ruled my the unconscious Ego .

What is an IDENTITY?

An identity is a tittle that you inherited by the society based on your Role / function . It’s also all the places you searched for yourself in. It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. But when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically opens the door to the truth of who you are .

Identities are man made illusions. They’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego . As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusions like fear , over thinking , negativity …etc
Once you win the guts to cross your identity loop you’ll achieve salvation, fulfilment and being present in the now .