Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life, but every time i discover I’m actually far away from independent. He who answered this question as “NO” is the closest to the truth.
Your can never be independent
Sure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need people etc. Best of all, you will become emotionally independent (by spiritual-growth)… moreover, when you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own (with the help of God only). It’s such a powerful state of being that is empowered even more with the reliance on God.
Nobody is hurting us. Instead we hurt ourselves through others. If we don’t turn our focus inward & become conscious of our nature. We’ll allow the past to repeat it’s patterns.
What do you mean by our nature? “Humans are like the moon, with a bright side and a dark side”. We all have an ego (the dark side). Some let it grow and others don’t. The ego feeds on negative low energy, such as anger, drama, fear, sadness, conflicts, hate and jealousy ..etc.
How does it feed on these emotions? The ego see such emotional state as a chance to activate itself through the emotion. So you find yourself getting angry over little meaningless things or get offended by everything neutral etc… If so, understand that it’s not you but your ego trying to take over you. Once the ego activate itself it grow and become powerful. If u let it keep growing through the negativity; it will eventually control you.
Why people who are driven by the ego are very reactive? Their ego jumps as soon as it finds an opportunity for conflicts or drama. Another nature of the ego is that it’s an ego! It only validate itself and it’s not fair. It takes a conscious human to recognise and admit’s his mistake, which is impossible with the ego. Ego is unconsciousness. It’s not your true self, instead your dark side. Therefore, I excuse unconscious people for their action and i think we should all do so. however, To fight the ego you must BECOME CONSCIOUS OF IT. Yes! As simple as this. Recognise it, watch it and accept it. When you The ego will shrink in size and diminish by time when you notice it’s existence.
Note: The state of no-ego; This state is the state of total awareness and self control. It’s inner peace and calmness. You will experience such life changing bless❤.
People talk about “winning” and “losing“. But winning what ?? Money? is this really what life is about? Is losing really a loss? …Life is nothing but different levels of consciousness for everyone. There’re no WINNERS or LOSERS. we’re in this together. We’re one. Inferiority and superiority are creation of the ego, not the human reality.
The problem with a winner loser mindset is that it defines you with a worldly achievement. Everything that arises dies. Every new life cycle require an ending of another cycle. In order to have an UP there must be a DOWN. However, getting attached to the UP through self definition “winner” is basically allowing yourself to go DOWN with that UP.
Don’t allow the winner mentality to destroy you. Don’t give it power by attaching yourself to it. You are not a winner or a loser, you’re yourself. Whatever happens in the external world is not you. Don’t chase things or people! The state of absolute power comes when you’re CONNECTED TO EVERYTHING AND ATTACHED TO NOTHING. I kid you not when I stopped needing or chasing things, everything came to me. There’s a hidden power in detaching yourself.
LETTING GO OF ALL THINGS ATTRACT EVERYTHING. – law of attraction.
I was right for thinking that I can control the majority of things. I successfully did control my thoughts, energy, emotion, desires, body and situations. The only thing I couldn’t control was LOVE. The crazy love that steal your heart without permission and fades away. I’m not talking about a “crush” or affection. I’m talking about the love of a twin flame. The love that overcome gravity! This kind of love is pure and beyond all forces, thus a twin flame physical separation is not a separation!
NOTHING REAL IS EVER LOST, AND NOTHING THAT IS LOST WAS EVER REAL.
You don’t lose your twin flame! Because he/she is YOU; when I got separated from my twin flame i realised that he was inside me all along. He’s a part of me which is hard to forget. But you don’t have to forget!! all you need is to accept the reality. Acceptance is the key to energy flow and as long as you’re holding resistance or any negative behaviour your blocking the cycle of life. This blockage can manifest itself through illness and an endless separation.
Furthermore, when you accept everything and let life be. Things will come to you. New opportunities, new experiences, wiser you…etc. Always keep at the bottom of your mind that if something is yours it will never pass you by. TRUST GOD. TRUST THE UNIVERSE.
Basically you didn’t love and lost. You loved and learned and still loving. The separation of your twin flame is nothing but a plane of god; to help both of you grow into the best version of yourselves. So Let the universe do it’s thing while you appreciate the blessings of life . ❤