Who is NOT your soulmate 🚫🥀

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There’re countless myths about soulmates out there, I honestly dont understand why.. I mean a soulmate must be very distinguishable. However, I decided to make this blog in order to clarify the confusion.

 

Myth 1: we often think a soulmate is a person who “complete us”. The truth is you’re already a whole, You’re complete by your own. An accurate definition of a soulmate comes from the word itself “mate for the soul“. Which indicate that your soulmate is a person who is spirituality alignment with you and balances you out. A mate who you find harmony with in the physical and non physical world.

 

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Myth 2: Another misunderstanding about soulmates is that he or she must be very similar to you. My answer to this myth is “it depends”. Some soulmates are similar, others are totally opposite. It doesn’t matter! What matters is that there’s a strong field of connection between the two souls. Another sign to look for is that “Do they make me grow?” …doesn’t your partner challenge you into becoming the best version of yourself? If the answer is ” yes” then he/she is your soulmate and vice versa.

 

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Myth 3: Most people believe that a soulmate relationship is all rosy.  I’m sorry but it’s not, a soulmate relationship is just like any relationship. There are ups and downs. Especially in a soulmate relationship where each partner subconscious challenges the other’s , it’s fair to say that such relationship could have more difficulties than a regular relationship.

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The invisible boundary

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If I would ask you right now, are you free? will you honestly answer yes?  Most people deep down know that they didn’t reach the definition of freedom. Maybe the definition itself is the boundary.  Maybe you weren’t born a slave to this world but you enslaved yourself by what we call A TITLE. Maybe the roles you play are not a part of life, but a mechanism for limitations.

 

What is an IDENTITY?

An identity is a title that you inherited by the society based on your Role ( functional role believed by the subconscious mind).  in addition, your identity could be based on a place that you THOUGHT you found yourself in.  It’s anything we put before it “my “ or “I’m”.  The dark side of self identifying is that what you identify yourself with becomes a part of you. Not in reality, but in the subconscious belief system it become WHO YOU ARE . which makes you attached to the tittle. thus you live in a loop of your SELF IDENTITIES and can never become or do something out of that loop. Simply Because your’s strongly attached to it. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom, limits your potential and keeps you fixated instead of being the flexible human being you are .

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It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. But when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically opens the door to the truth of who you are. Identities are man made illusions. They’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego . As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusions like fear, over thinking, negativity etc.. TO BREAK FREE YOU MUST LET GO. To rise you must kill what’s holding you down, remember you are your own worst enemy.

 

What the world say, is not your reality. 👁⚡

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I was in a gathering the other day where everybody BRAGED. Showing off what they have and did. Naturally I just don’t like talking about myself, especially showing off. So i stayed silent. The following days I realized the change in attitude. Obviously the one who showed off the most or in the society’s eyes is “Great” and “Wealthy ” was given respect and honnor. Where for me I was discounted. As a result I got taken by the negativity, not that they harmed me but the act of racism or segregation by itself is negative.

 

Just because i dont show off my greatness, doesnt mean i’m not great“.  This thought bought me back to my senses. It’s insane how we can think less of ourselves and believe in other’s opinion of us. Yet worst, make it our reality.  We live in an age where Trend is stronger than one’s own voice.  Indeed, the society tremendously influence how we perceive ourselves.  THE ASCH CONFORMITY EXPERIMENT;  is a psychological experiment done in the 1950’s. The experiment revealed the degree to which a person’s opinion is influenced by those of groups. It proved that the society can suppress our voice. In fact, people were willing to ignore the reality and give an incorrect answer inorder to conform to the rest of the group. See for yourself ;

You’re great and you don’t need to prove it!  No, you don’t need to mimic the fales greatness ( The Greatness measured with materialistic properties, which motivate us to show off and brag instead of  act and impact). Greatness is already within you. The true greatness.  At the end the only memory will be left of you after you die, is the memories you gave to others.  Not your big house or your fancy cars, But how many hearts did you touch. To conclude, just think wiser and become aware of the effect on society on your mind.

ANTI-SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR IS AN ACT OF INTELLIGENCE IN A WORLD FULL OF CONFORMIST _ Nikola Tesla.

 

 

Signs of fake people👣🕶🕵️‍♀️🕵️‍♂️

 

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Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.

 

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How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people;

1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.

 

2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.

 

3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .

 

4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.

 

5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.

 

6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .

 

7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.

 

For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.

Limitations are within you not outside of you.

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Your body can do anything your mind command it to do. Your mind is your limitation.  If you continue doing something at a constant pace with NO MIND ( no thinking) you can go on to infinity.

 

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This’s how an athlete finished the race with a broken leg. How humans do the “impossible “. It’s not that they’re any special, it’s  that they have learned to not give attention to the things that stops them ( thoughts, Fear, physical pain and self doubt).  Limitation are their to protect you from the unknown, fight or flight response from your mind to stop you and keep you “safe”.

 

In order to overcome these intense signals you must shut down the mind! Mute the mind. Don’t think of the pain or your surroundings.  Don’t distract yourself with the future or pasr. Then and only then you’ll by pass the physical pain and  detach yourself from your entire body. Let me break the process down for you.

1. Have a strong believe in yourself.

2. Mute the mind .

3. Continue the action you’re  doing at the moment ( constant momentum of constant velocity at an infinite  time).

4. Self talk, if needed!

 

 

The law of detachment♾🌁🚴‍♂️💮

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The law of detachment insures you that your burning desire will manifest once you LET GO . You see! when you hold on into something so tight it will slip away, plus your pressure will hurt it. Leaving a room for air is necessary for energy flow. Sure, Have a burning desire that drives you out of bed everyday. But not a Need that destroy you and whatever you love. If your goal didn’t  get manifested.

 

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Make your energy aligned and connected with your goals. Alignment is everything! Unfortunately It’s not enough to become detachment. You need to vibrate  in the same frequency as what you’re trying to attract. LIKE ATTRACT LIKE. In quantum physics energies with the same wave length and frequency travel together.

 

BECOME CONNECTED TO EVERYTHING AND ATTACHED TO NOTHING.  I know how hard it is to let go of something you desperately want . It’s human nature to have the need to possess things. But the truth is you dont need what you’re seeking. You can live without it! You’re already complete and enough by yourself. Believe in yourself and let go.❤