How to understand your own dream.🎑

IMG_20190130_221629_824.jpgDreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.

 

So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..

 

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Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either.  Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem.  As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY.  Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life.  Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.

 

Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than  emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.

 

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Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up.  Instead It’s very peaceful.

I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.  Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .

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What the world say, is not your reality. 👁⚡

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I was in a gathering the other day where everybody BRAGED. Showing off what they have and did. Naturally I just don’t like talking about myself, especially showing off. So i stayed silent. The following days I realized the change in attitude. Obviously the one who showed off the most or in the society’s eyes is “Great” and “Wealthy ” was given respect and honnor. Where for me I was discounted. As a result I got taken by the negativity, not that they harmed me but the act of racism or segregation by itself is negative.

 

 

Just because i dont show off my greatness, doesnt mean i’m not great“.  This thought bought me back to my senses. It’s insane how we can think less of ourselves and believe in other’s opinion of us. Yet worst, make it our reality.  We live in an age where Trend is stronger than one’s own voice.  Indeed, the society tremendously influence how we perceive ourselves.  THE ASCH CONFORMITY EXPERIMENT;  is a psychological experiment done in the 1950’s. The experiment revealed the degree to which a person’s opinion is influenced by those of groups. It proved that the society can suppress our voice. In fact, people were willing to ignore the reality and give an incorrect answer inorder to conform to the rest of the group. See for yourself >

 

 

You’re great and you don’t need to prove it!  No, you don’t need to mimic the fales greatness ( The Greatness measured with materialistic properties, which motivate us to show off and brag instead of  act and impact). Greatness is already within you. The true greatness.  At the end the only memory will be left of you after you die, is the memories you gave to others.  Not your big house or your fancy cars, But how many hearts did you touch. To conclude, just think wiser and become aware of the effect on society on your mind.

ANTI-SOCIAL  BEHAVIOUR IS AN ACT OF INTELLIGENCE IN A WORLD FULL OF CONFORMIST _ Nikola Tesla.

 

 

Where’s the Love?

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Where is the love ? Is it in the things you buy? Is it in your spouse? Is it in nature ? Or in food?  Love is within you. It’s not an emotion or a an image ..a person ….a thing …a feeling etc.  Love is energy. It’s the compound of life. Where there is love there is life.

 

When you like someone you’re selfish. You want to own them. You don’t care if you hurt them through fulfilling your desire. But when you love someone you’re selfless. You care only about their happiness, even if it mean sacrificing your own.  Its important to understand that love is pure, it’s from God. Only God can sustain you with love. Before you say you love someone test yourself with the explanation above. Inaddition see if you can LET GO of the person you love. If you failed, then I’m sorry to say YOU DON’T LOVE HIM / HER.  Love shouldn’t make you needy. Once attachment is involved it’s not love but a lack in self-esteem. The sense of being incomplete.

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Love is infinite. It shouldn’t fade or die simply because energy doesn’t die. Love is a strong nourishing energy that build life on earth. The love in your heart can increase as you ascend through levels of consciousness. Thus many individuals experience a shift in personality after waking up, from bitter and selfish to selfless and compassionate. The love in their hearts have been activated. They then attract more love by practicing love and so forth.

 

The moral of this blog is; don’t look for love, your not missing it! It’s within you. Just activate it through 2 things;

1. connecting with the true source of love, GOD.

2. Manifesting more love into your life through your actions .

Signs of fake people👣🕶🕵️‍♀️🕵️‍♂️

 

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Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.

 

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How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people:

1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.

2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.

3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .

4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.

5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.

6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .

7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.

For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.

Who’s in control, you or your ego ?

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Nobody is hurting us. Instead we hurt ourselves through others. If we don’t turn our focus inward & become conscious of our nature. We’ll allow the past to repeat it’s patterns.

 

What do you mean by our nature? 

The human nature is pure but the ego pollute it. The ego is with each one of us “Humans are like the moon, with a bright side and a dark side”. This is absolutely true. We all have an ego. Some activate it and others don’t. The ego is a basically your DARK SIDE. It feed on negative / low energy. Such as anger, drama, fear, sadness, conflicts, hate and jealousy ..etc.
How does it feed on these emotions? The ego see such emotional state as a chance to activate itself through it. So you find yourself getting angry over little meaningless things or get offended by everything.. etc.  If so, understand that it’s not you but your ego trying to take over you. Once the ego activate itself it grow, which makes it powerful. If you allow it to keep growing through the negativity; it will eventually control you.

 

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People who are driven by the ego are very reactive. Their ego jumps as soon as it finds an opportunity for conflicts or drama. Another nature of the ego is that it’s an ego!  It only validate itself and it’s not fair. It takes a conscious alert self to admit a mistake. Ego is unconsciousness. It’s not your true self, instead your dark side. Therefore, I excuse unconscious people for their actions. I think we should all do so after learning about the ego.  However, the ego can be defeated. Battling the ego require time and constant consciousness.

 

To fight the ego you must BECOME CONSCIOUS OF IT.  Yes! As simple as this. All you should do is become alert of it when it’s present. Absorve your ego at the moment of anger or drama. When you notice the ege it shrink in size. Thus by time the ego will diminish.

How do I know I’m ego_free ?

The state of no-ego; This state is the state of total awareness and self control. It’s inner peace & calmness. After you have finally won over the ego. You will experience such life changing bless❤.

Health at it’s peak ( part 1) 💪🏻🌼💫

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I know you’re here to improve your health but before I reveal the secret to an infinite health; i want to share with you my journey towards a healthy lifestyle.

 

Lets talk food! It all begun in middle school when I was obese (89 kg). I still remember how I hated the feeling of my thighs touching each other! I wanted to cut my fats with a scissor, literally this is how fast I desired to get rid of my fats.  Fast forward i dropped from 89kg to 44 kg in 3 months. I BECAME INSANE! I was slowly drifting into the path of Anorexia. But luckily saved myself out of it, by not following any DIET.  Instead I listen to my body. Through it i learned that someone’s diet might not work for you. Indeed our bodies are different. Don’t blindly following others! Experiment with yourself to see what works for you.  I believe all these diets are out there for us to benefit from.  For example; I have a very sensitive stomach where i can’t digest most things. So a vegan diet worked well for me. White my sister is un-vegan and doing just fine.  WE DONT HAVE THE SAME PATH.  ACCEPT YOUR DIFFERENCES AND SEEK KNOWLEDGE .     

   

In order to modify your eating habit you need to learn about food.  About the benefits and danger of food. This way you limit the excuses of the mind.  A general ruling that differentiate good from bad, is the sun. The longer the food is exposed to the sun. The healthier it is.  Making green vegetables the most nutritious. While food made in laboratory contain mostly empty calories ( un-nutritions ).  I mean JUNK FOOD is called JUNK for a reason.  For more information , check Dr Sebi- alkaline food . 

 

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Through out my life i found so many things are best as ORGANIC OPTION, that we are fooled by many companies who just want to sell their product. For example the idea of using a shampoo!  Our aunt sisters never used a shampoo to keep their hair strong and healthy.  Instead they used natural substances like olive oil, coconut oil, milk and egg ( for hair mask). What’s funnier is that every time i washed my hair with shampoo it got more damaged. When i replaced my shampoo with apple cider vinegar, the change was astounding! I surmounted my dead hair! What makes home remedies IDEAL is that they suit everyone. My friend who have a straight hair got the same AMAZING result when using Apple cider vinegar.

INSTRUCTIONS>

  1. Add 2 to 3 tsp of apple cider vinegar in a cup of water .
  2. wash your hair with Apple cider vinegar.
  3. Wait 1-2 mins then rinse with water.
  4. As a result your hair should be strong and shiny.

In case of over use of ACV (acidic) your hair might feel a little too rough, you can balance the error by using a raw food hair mask ( works as a conditioner) or coconut oil / olive oil after the shower. GET CREATIVE! IF YOU CAN’T THEN EMULATE OUR AUNT SISTERS.

 

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The state of grace⭐

20181220_090718The state of grace is also known as the state of light or enlightenment. Some call it the love of God, because it’s the state where God’s light is within you. The highest state of consciousness one can reach! And exactly as it’s called light , you actually SHIN. You become light to others & transmit light everywhere you go.

 

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Your presence become intensely distructive. Since your vibrating in an extremely high energy filed of love, joy and peace. Thus negative people will not be able to withstand your vibration. Not only people of lower energy but also any type of negative energy. Such as fear, anixity, anger, depression.. stress etc. Will no longer exist or in other words will not be able to exist in your life.
This’s what we call the benefit of enlightenment 🙌.
Your sharp consciousness will protect you from the negative fields of others by raising the frequency vibration of you energy field, that anything vibrating at a lower frequency now exists in a virtually a different order of reality.

 

On the other hand, you will attract certain people. Those with an alert consciousness or escalating in consciousness. Indeed even in the times of the prophets those who got attracted to the message of the massagers and seeked religion where those of who are conscious. So as you desire to help and have reached the state of compassion you will become blessed with those who listen to you. Those who will receive your light and pass it on. It’s a beautiful thing isn’t it ? Even more wonderful realising all this beauty is the beauty of God … The light ..The ease ..The love. What a blessing to become alive!

 

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In reverse , All the energies you transmit will flow your way. If you give love you will attract love etc. when you’re in harmony with the universe, you’ll be surprised at how fast and easy opportunities come to you.
Now that you had a sneak peek on the state of absolute oness. You shall stay more present In order to rise you consciousness. You don’t have to be super conscious to help others. You can still help, impact and influence in your current state of being . Only through goodness one can grow in vibration.

The right way of parenting 👪

1As soon as we give birth our mindset shift from ” free ” to “responsible “.  As if a heavy weight is dropped on us. The ego find this an opportunity to grow, so it fool us into defining us with the parenting role. Thus a mother will play the mother role on her kids and gets extremely angry if treated otherwise, because right now it’s not just a role! it’s her identity. WHO SHE IS. Obviously this creates a lot of problems within a family. Parents clinging their kids freedom, Abusing and unfairly dealing with their kids under the role of “parents”. Furthermore, the kids grow up  irresponsible, indecisive , lacking personality and independence… Never recovered from the role of  ” child ” that was forced by the parents.

 

loveParents! I understand the profound love you’ve for your children. Yet true love can never be expressed through the ego. The ego always seek conflicts to validate itself. The role of a parent is nothing more than a tool for the ego to stay alive inside you and keep you attached. Inaddition the superior parent role creates a boundary between the child and his parent. Any relationship that include the ego is inauthentic.

 

If you really love your kid and concerned about him/ her, ask yourself these questions every time you catch yourself in the role of parenting.

1. Did I like it when my parents did this to me ?

2. Is their another way I can make my kid understand my message ?

3. WHO is the better teacher experience or what I’m going to say right now ?

4. What’s the worst case scenario my kid can cause ?

5. Is my action and words showing love or the opposite?

6. Do i really want my kid to become the best or be himself ?

 

You can still be a parent without playing the role of a parent! Give your kids love , give them care & knowledge but through friendship. Become their life companion and not as a superior parent. The best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. Be real. ONLY REAL THINGS CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS.
Let life teach them! yes, I understand you dont want your kids to do the same mistakes you’ve done. But let’s be real; did you learn through experience or words ?  Don’t forget that your experience made you into who you are today. Therefore, give your kids SPACE.  Let them be, experience and grow.  SPACE is truly the most thing they need.  Let go of your attachment to the ego Now! for the sake of your children.

How to become more patience.🌸🧘‍♀️🏝

20181211_213526The good will come to you, if you’re patient enough. Patience is hard yet it assures you with a huge reward. Becoming patient is not any kind of superpower, it’s indeed easy.  The difference between a patient person and a non-patient or reactive person lies on the mind.  He who’s aware of the flow of life
Will tend to be patient. He understands that within every situation there’s the part (for you ) to deal with & the uncontrollable part; the part of the superior power.
After you have used your part wisely the rest must be accepted. The accepting process is translated into patience/ surrender.  More of letting life flow as it is. Without resistance or rush.

 

20181211_213502.jpgEverybody can become patient by fully trusting and believing in the cycle of life. What I said earlier, which is Things will fall into place if you just wait and after you have done your part fully.  As relaxing as it sound it’s true. The strong belief in the universe & god is the key to patience.  Because it brings a sense of control. Pulse aligne your energy with what you desire.

 

If you want a positive outcome from a situation your energy must align with it, in order to attract it. Thus when your vibration is low / negative based on anger , stress or depression. Even if you’re seeking your desired outcome through action it won’t come to you. Because you’re pushing it away instead of attracting it ! You need to align with it first..

 

20181211_213601Now you understood how your mental state plays a big part in your life. You shall do your deeds and surrender to the universe. As you’re patiently waiting, enjoy the journey.  Your positive state of being will grow & attract more positive things! Things that you didn’t ask for or imagined.  These what we call Blessings.

How to over come depression 😁🙋‍♀️

924f5a09622532a29b3e69310a1d0e66So you are depressed! Let me ask you a few questions  before you scroll down. Why are you depression? Do you actually care about the “thing” that made you depressed? Do you think you can control your life & your depression?

 

Often people say “You can’t control what happen in the external world, but you can control what happens inside of you”  what if I told you you actually can control the your external reality, and that it’s  nothing but a reflection of your inner state of being.  The only reason you’re depressed is because you always focus on the negative and what you focuse on you will shall find. It’s  a simple a this!

 

The truth is there’s no good or bad , instead everything is neutral in nature. Our mind is the instrument that define good and bad. When your mind patterns is defining everything as BAD no wonder why you’re  depressed!.  Negative thinking patterns develop negative low emotions such as sadness, depression, anixity and madness..etc  These emotions then develop a reaction and the reaction become your reality.  You’re reaction controls the event, the event doesn’t  ontrol your reaction. For example when you’re stuck in a traffic jam you can simply enjoy the sunset view, turning this moment into joy or focuse on the crowd and build up frustration.

 

The key of happiness is to look at everything as it is. With a neutral perspective. No judgment. Exactly how Shakespeare said ” NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BUT THINKING MAKES IT SO ” .
This is the absolute life reality. No situation is either good or bad. Instead our thoughts are what define the situation. When you start perceiving things from a neutral perspective you will realise the sense of ease. Because you’re accepting the situation as it is, which allows the energy to flow.  There’re no resistance or negativity.  It’s such a blessing of inner peace! Furthermore, neutrality is obtained with a very high vibration, (a high level of consciousness).  Thus you can’t effortlessly achieve a neutral mentality.  Yet you can practice neutrality by being aware of your judgement.

 

Catch yourself when you judge a situation as good or bad. Then ask yourself the reason behind your judgement. At this moment it will become clearer to you, that it’s your mind and not the reality of the situation.  Now! try to look at the situation from a neutral eye; to do so you must search for the good and the bad. Once the two possibilities are present in a situation you’re basically tricking your mind into opening a door of CHOICE. Your mind can no longer play the victim mentality.  But you’re now in control and freedom of choice. You can either choose to react positively or negatively.