The secret for building a better society.🤝🌐

photo-1471094188469-4a39f5d71ad8I understand the struggle and your burning desire for change.
But Unfortunately, battling is not the right method. YOU CAN’T CHANGE THE NEGATIVE WITH NEGATIVE.  In order to obtain real change you must start with changing the source of the problem. Otherwise the problem will keep recurring; because no effective change have been applied.  Likewise, To build a strong building, you need a good foundation. we often focus on the problem instead of the source of the problem. Then as reactive beings we try to replace the existing  with our perspective, using force. Thus we fail and will keep failing.

 

 

photo-1524802414218-3983cd08ed53.jpegAnother problem we commit while seeking change, is that we think everything can be solved using Force. while in reality it complicate things even more.  TRY USING YOUR ENERGY INSTEAD OF YOUR BODY.  Energy can’t be ignored nor avoided.  It’s what makes us and the laws of the universe. When you influence a negative source with good energy, you’ll not only succeed in transforming the source. But you will also attract more positive results.

 

Let me tell you a little story that happened to me a long time ago; We all have that one person who hates us, for no reason. It’s not that he/she spit out their hate, but the repulsive energy they transmit towards you is obvious.  Fast forward, I was once put into an event with a person who held such feelings towards me. It’s not like we’ve spoke before. Yet the moment I acknowledged his hate towards me, I began to transmit positive energy ( In the form of thoughts) . Such as ” hey! your safe, your wonderful, your amazing , i love you, you are blessed, I’m peace, I’m not judging you…etc “.  I transmitted a combination of love, positivity and healing energy and I kid you not! the situation shifted 360 degrees!!! The person became more relaxed and peaceful. We even became friends later on.

 

Choose-love_red-fairy-project_daily-inspiration-600x600.jpgThe method I used here is called TELEPATHY COMMUNICATION. I’m not saying that we should always use this technique. My story is only an example that shows you the power of energy.  Nevertheless, You can change people using positive energy, in the form of attitude, positive words, thoughts or just A SMILE.  To me this’s the true definition of winning, it’s not only by solving a problem but also saving a life.  Picking up someone who’s trapped in negatively and giving them light… We’re not here to create enimes, infact we’re ONE. When you harm others you’re indirectly harming yourself.  Plus you’re no longer better than them. So use your energy WISELY.  💕

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How to understand your own dream.🎑

IMG_20190130_221629_824.jpgDreams can be categorised into 3 groups: Nightmares (what I personally call dream of the devil), Emotional dream and A Message dream.

 

So let’s start with the 1st one, Nightmares. It’s super easy to distinguish a nightmare; since it’s usually frightening and displeasant. However, it’s essential to understand that nightmares are dreams where the devil influence is very high. The devil’s main goal is to disturb you as must as possible. Thus nightmares are unbearable. But don’t sweat it! Nightmares can never hurt you in real life, I mean they’re even fictional sometimes..

 

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Emotional dream; is a self made dream. Just you and your imagination. It depends alot on your emotional state. For example your stress or worry can reflect in such dreams. Emotional dreams are usually fictional and doesn’t cause any harm either.  Furthermore, the over thinking of a dream while you’re awake is the problem.  As i always mention in my blogs, EVERYTHING IS ENERGY.  Negative thoughts are negative energy that will manifest itself into your life.  Do yourself a favour and don’t let dreams eat your brain.

 

Emotional dreams usually contain lot’s of fiction and unexplained signs. Which can be translated from a psychological perspective. Beside, such dream is often forgotten after waking up. Because it’s nothing more than  emotions expressing themselves, with the help of your creative mind.

 

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Moving to the last and rare kind of dreams, a message dream. Yes! Dreams can be a message from your creator and No! you don’t have to be any special to receive these dreams. Such dream is very clear. It pretty straight forward, with no hidden messages.
The key sign for spotting a message dream is that you won’t feel any unpleasant emotions, when you wake up.  Instead It’s very peaceful.

I hope this blog was useful… Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.  Love & blessings from me 💕 🙏 .

What the world say, is not your reality. 👁⚡

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I was in a gathering the other day where everybody BRAGED. Showing off what they have and did. Naturally I just don’t like talking about myself, especially showing off. So i stayed silent. The following days I realized the change in attitude. Obviously the one who showed off the most or in the society’s eyes is “Great” and “Wealthy ” was given respect and honnor. Where for me I was discounted. As a result I got taken by the negativity, not that they harmed me but the act of racism or segregation by itself is negative.

 

 

Just because i dont show off my greatness, doesnt mean i’m not great“.  This thought bought me back to my senses. It’s insane how we can think less of ourselves and believe in other’s opinion of us. Yet worst, make it our reality.  We live in an age where Trend is stronger than one’s own voice.  Indeed, the society tremendously influence how we perceive ourselves.  THE ASCH CONFORMITY EXPERIMENT;  is a psychological experiment done in the 1950’s. The experiment revealed the degree to which a person’s opinion is influenced by those of groups. It proved that the society can suppress our voice. In fact, people were willing to ignore the reality and give an incorrect answer inorder to conform to the rest of the group. See for yourself >

 

 

You’re great and you don’t need to prove it!  No, you don’t need to mimic the fales greatness ( The Greatness measured with materialistic properties, which motivate us to show off and brag instead of  act and impact). Greatness is already within you. The true greatness.  At the end the only memory will be left of you after you die, is the memories you gave to others.  Not your big house or your fancy cars, But how many hearts did you touch. To conclude, just think wiser and become aware of the effect on society on your mind.

ANTI-SOCIAL  BEHAVIOUR IS AN ACT OF INTELLIGENCE IN A WORLD FULL OF CONFORMIST _ Nikola Tesla.

 

 

Signs of fake people👣🕶🕵️‍♀️🕵️‍♂️

 

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Due to my experience, I found that fake people vary in degrees of fakeness. So you find a person who’s fake yet not very harmful, while another is super toxic in nature. Why? Because of the materialistic society we live in. Social media encourages people to become FAKE. It brain washes them with immortality. Thus nowadays everybody is infected with a degree of fakeness.

 

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How to spot a fake person? As i mentioned before, fake people are with levels of fakeness, so they might have some of these trades and not all. The people who’re slightly fake are harder to spot than toxic people. Signs of fake people:

1. Attention seeker; A fake person is always hungry for attention and drama. It have to do with his/her ego nature.

2. Showing off all the time; again this subconscious attitude is done by the ego and sense of being incomplete or less than others.

3. They only respect people with power; here where they ” PLAY DIRTY”! Fake people are manipulative experts and super target focused. If they want something from you, they will do anything to get you to like them. It’s also called being TWO FACED or USING OTHERS .

4. They’re a gossiping machine; Fake people love to gossip. They have a sneaky communication habit, Which is not expressing their opinion honesty or directly.

5. They criticize others to make themselves look good. Fake people are very ego based. They’re unable to love or care for anyone other than themselves. They just think of themselves as superior to everyone.

6. They have a big mouth; Fake people will be the first to give promises and big words, yet do nothing at all. They love playing the HERO or Painting a perfect image of themselves .

7. They’re very reactive; Fake people react over everything! They often look for drama and conflicts. So you might find them a little too nosy.

For more understanding on the nature of fake people, Read my blog ” Who’s in control, you or your ego“.

Health at it’s peak ( part 1) 💪🏻🌼💫

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I know you’re here to improve your health but before I reveal the secret to an infinite health; i want to share with you my journey towards a healthy lifestyle.

 

Lets talk food! It all begun in middle school when I was obese (89 kg). I still remember how I hated the feeling of my thighs touching each other! I wanted to cut my fats with a scissor, literally this is how fast I desired to get rid of my fats.  Fast forward i dropped from 89kg to 44 kg in 3 months. I BECAME INSANE! I was slowly drifting into the path of Anorexia. But luckily saved myself out of it, by not following any DIET.  Instead I listen to my body. Through it i learned that someone’s diet might not work for you. Indeed our bodies are different. Don’t blindly following others! Experiment with yourself to see what works for you.  I believe all these diets are out there for us to benefit from.  For example; I have a very sensitive stomach where i can’t digest most things. So a vegan diet worked well for me. White my sister is un-vegan and doing just fine.  WE DONT HAVE THE SAME PATH.  ACCEPT YOUR DIFFERENCES AND SEEK KNOWLEDGE .     

   

In order to modify your eating habit you need to learn about food.  About the benefits and danger of food. This way you limit the excuses of the mind.  A general ruling that differentiate good from bad, is the sun. The longer the food is exposed to the sun. The healthier it is.  Making green vegetables the most nutritious. While food made in laboratory contain mostly empty calories ( un-nutritions ).  I mean JUNK FOOD is called JUNK for a reason.  For more information , check Dr Sebi- alkaline food . 

 

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Through out my life i found so many things are best as ORGANIC OPTION, that we are fooled by many companies who just want to sell their product. For example the idea of using a shampoo!  Our aunt sisters never used a shampoo to keep their hair strong and healthy.  Instead they used natural substances like olive oil, coconut oil, milk and egg ( for hair mask). What’s funnier is that every time i washed my hair with shampoo it got more damaged. When i replaced my shampoo with apple cider vinegar, the change was astounding! I surmounted my dead hair! What makes home remedies IDEAL is that they suit everyone. My friend who have a straight hair got the same AMAZING result when using Apple cider vinegar.

INSTRUCTIONS>

  1. Add 2 to 3 tsp of apple cider vinegar in a cup of water .
  2. wash your hair with Apple cider vinegar.
  3. Wait 1-2 mins then rinse with water.
  4. As a result your hair should be strong and shiny.

In case of over use of ACV (acidic) your hair might feel a little too rough, you can balance the error by using a raw food hair mask ( works as a conditioner) or coconut oil / olive oil after the shower. GET CREATIVE! IF YOU CAN’T THEN EMULATE OUR AUNT SISTERS.

 

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How to over come depression 😁🙋‍♀️

924f5a09622532a29b3e69310a1d0e66So you are depressed! Let me ask you a few questions  before you scroll down. Why are you depression? Do you actually care about the “thing” that made you depressed? Do you think you can control your life & your depression?

 

Often people say “You can’t control what happen in the external world, but you can control what happens inside of you”  what if I told you you actually can control the your external reality, and that it’s  nothing but a reflection of your inner state of being.  The only reason you’re depressed is because you always focus on the negative and what you focuse on you will shall find. It’s  a simple a this!

 

The truth is there’s no good or bad , instead everything is neutral in nature. Our mind is the instrument that define good and bad. When your mind patterns is defining everything as BAD no wonder why you’re  depressed!.  Negative thinking patterns develop negative low emotions such as sadness, depression, anixity and madness..etc  These emotions then develop a reaction and the reaction become your reality.  You’re reaction controls the event, the event doesn’t  ontrol your reaction. For example when you’re stuck in a traffic jam you can simply enjoy the sunset view, turning this moment into joy or focuse on the crowd and build up frustration.

 

The key of happiness is to look at everything as it is. With a neutral perspective. No judgment. Exactly how Shakespeare said ” NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BUT THINKING MAKES IT SO ” .
This is the absolute life reality. No situation is either good or bad. Instead our thoughts are what define the situation. When you start perceiving things from a neutral perspective you will realise the sense of ease. Because you’re accepting the situation as it is, which allows the energy to flow.  There’re no resistance or negativity.  It’s such a blessing of inner peace! Furthermore, neutrality is obtained with a very high vibration, (a high level of consciousness).  Thus you can’t effortlessly achieve a neutral mentality.  Yet you can practice neutrality by being aware of your judgement.

 

Catch yourself when you judge a situation as good or bad. Then ask yourself the reason behind your judgement. At this moment it will become clearer to you, that it’s your mind and not the reality of the situation.  Now! try to look at the situation from a neutral eye; to do so you must search for the good and the bad. Once the two possibilities are present in a situation you’re basically tricking your mind into opening a door of CHOICE. Your mind can no longer play the victim mentality.  But you’re now in control and freedom of choice. You can either choose to react positively or negatively.

 

Do you have a miserable job?? …Read this. 👠👔🕛

iStock_000015778244XSmall-425x272.jpgMy sister have spent her entire life hanging from one job to another. In every job she repeated the same phrase ” I’m not happy ” . My sister wasn’t a slave to the system. She had courage to stand up for herself.  She did so when she found herself unhappy with a certain job. But she couldn’t quit the old fashioned mentality! She was like any human, looking for happiness & success. She was someone who believed happiness & success exist with a common job, especially in a super developed city.  My sister failed to realise what she’s looking for is in fact easy to achieve; and found with in .

 

“DON’T ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO THE WORLD, ASK WHAT MAKES YOU ALIVE .”  This’s one of my favourite quotes plus the reason for my sister’s dissatisfaction. Non of the positions she obtained were fulfilling her, simply because she wasn’t living her life mission. We’re all born with a gift. A gift that’s suppose to be used for the service of others. Everybody’s gift is different.  However, in order to find what your gift is; you must discover who you are not. When you know who you are not , who you are will become clearer.

Note : Don’t confuse your gift with passion or interests! One of the common mistakes nowadays is that people have too many interests. So they run around trying to do everything. While you can only get excellent at one thing, Which is your gift.

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But How do I find my gift / purpose in life faster? Experience.
A wise man once told me on my way to Africa; to welcome all experiences and go through them UNTIL THE END.  Finish them ! … This was back then when I had the habit of jumping around from one thing to the next.
The more you experience the better you know what not to do, which later guide you to your purpose. Dont take failing as something too seriouse. You’re not worthless! Your failure is for two reasons, either the thing you failed in is not meant for you ( not your purpose) or it is your purpose in life, but you’re on the road of learning. EMBRACE AND LOVE EVERY FAILURE, BECAUSE EVERY FAILURE IS A STEP FORWARD.

 

You will know your purpose. Be patient.        I’m confidently saying this because it’s within you; Your truth and all you need is within you.  There’s nothing easier to find than what is already inside you.  Always follow your gut feeling. Also what I said earlier about feeling alive.  Then add to the equation “How can I serve others “…Anddddd booom!! There you have it. The first thought is the answer. Now put it into experience & see what happens.

Are you a winner or a loser ?🌌👣👁

20181201_190050.jpgPeople talk about “winning” and “losing” .
But winning what ?? Money? is this really what life is about? Is losing really a loss? …Life is nothing but different levels of consciousness for everyone. There’re no WINNERS or LOSERS.  we’re in this together. We’re one. Inferiority and superiority are creation of the ego, not the human reality.🌌👣👁

 

The problem with a winner loser mindset is that it defines you with a worldly achievement. Everything that arises dies. This’s the nature of life.  Every new life cycle require an ending of another cycle.  In order to have an UP there must be a DOWN. However, getting attached to the UP through self definition of a “winner” is basically allowing yourself to go DOWN with that UP.

 

Don’t allow the winner mentality to destroy you. Don’t give it power by attaching yourself to it. You are not a winner or a loser, you’re  yourself and whatever happens in the external world is not you. Don’t chase things or people! The state of  absolute power comes when you’re CONNECTED TO EVERYTHING AND ATTACHED TO NOTHING .

 

I kid you not when I stopped needing and chasing things. That’s when everything came to me. There’s a hidden power in disattaching yourself from things.  LETTING GO OF ALL THINGS ATTRACT EVERYTHING. – law of attraction.

Can I fix you 🌫

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Everywhere I went I found broken pieces of beautiful hearts. I tried to become the key to EVERY door. But is it possible? Can one free all?

I know the power within me is far beyond the limits. “It seems like a hard task ” my inner doubt whisper, as I became more desperate for the mission.

Book after book, I thought i was ready! I took every shot that life grant me.  However, the results didn’t satisfy me .

Finally on a cold night. I realised that one does free all. But it can’t be me or you. It must be the one above us ALL.

What is love ?

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Love is a positive attracting energy. If you give love you’re not going to only receive love in return, but you will receive peace, fulfilment and happiness too.  Energys of the same frequently flow togerher. When you transmit love it will attract other positive energies that align with it.

 

Why love remain while everything else vanish through time ?

It’s because love have to do with our state of being.  Have you heard of  “GOD IS LOVE “. it’s drived from the feeling of oneness that love gives. We’re one with the universe. This’s the human truth.  Love is an energy that guide to the state of oneness.  It’s a power that connect souls and gather hearts.

 

Love is so POWERFUL because of it’s permenent effect on being. Once you receive or give the energy of love you feel a deep peace, beauty and stillness. Basically you get enlightened. Your state of consciousness shift to a very high level where love is. Thus you become very alert.

 

At a small village in Africa a rule of love is found. Which is; when someone does something wrong or commit a crime. The entire village gather with the criminal at the center and They begin to mention all the good things he/ she have done. Aiming to bring the criminal back to his good self.
It’s fascinating how they’re aware of the power of love. Most importantly they understand that the human is born pure and By simply connecting him back to his natural state all his impurities will fall off.