There’re countless myths about soulmates out there, I honestly dont understand why.. I mean a soulmate must be very distinguishable. However, I decided to make this blog in order to clarify the confusion.
Myth 1: we often think a soulmate is a person who “complete us”. The truth is you’re already a whole, You’re complete by your own. An accurate definition of a soulmate comes from the word itself “mate for the soul“. Which indicate that your soulmate is a person who is spirituality alignment with you and balances you out. A mate who you find harmony with in the physical and non physical world.
Myth 2: Another misunderstanding about soulmates is that he or she must be very similar to you. My answer to this myth is “it depends”. Some soulmates are similar, others are totally opposite. It doesn’t matter! What matters is that there’s a strong field of connection between the two souls. Another sign to look for is that “Do they make me grow?” …doesn’t your partner challenge you into becoming the best version of yourself? If the answer is ” yes” then he/she is your soulmate and vice versa.
Myth 3: Most people believe that a soulmate relationship is all rosy. I’m sorry but it’s not, a soulmate relationship is just like any relationship. There are ups and downs. Especially in a soulmate relationship where each partner subconscious challenges the other’s , it’s fair to say that such relationship could have more difficulties than a regular relationship.
The theory of paralle universe is also called omniverse, is a hypothetical group of multiple universes including the universe in which we live. Together,these universes comprise everything that exists. To clarify, the universe consist of multiple parallel realities, each reality hold a possibility. Your present choice is what determin your reality, you change you destiny by just choosing. As i said in a previous blog; Destiny is made up of two parts. A part that is under ďyour control and a part that’s controlled by God.
Lets take an example, imagine Tom walking down the street and happen to see an ice cream shop. The fact that Tom reached such destination is a blessing from God. However, Tom’s role is to choose whether to take this opportunity or not. Until Tom make up his mind, there exist countless possibilities. Like him buying an ice cream, him not buying an ice, him buying a shake instead, him only using the bathroom or walking away from the ice cream shop…etc. Each of Tom’s possibilities will be in a future parallel reality and once Tom make up his mind, he will experience the chosen reality.
What’s crucial to understand is that if Tom have choosen not to eat an ice cream someone else will eat his ice cream. His opportunity will become someone else’s reality, if he didn’t choose it. This applies on everything in life. If you don’t accept the money, the money will go to someone else. If you don’t eat the food, it will get eaten by someone else and so on. This’s the law of life, to every giver there’s a receiver. You have multiple possibilities, but only one opportunity. So it’s either you choose to give and there will be a receiver or you take in place of those who gave away their opportunity. Another way to think about it is that to every present there’s the absence of it.
Take a shower and your depression will go away. I’m seriously! As silly as it sounds, it’s true. Depression is caused by external factors. Like the environment or an event or a simple object that reminded you of your darkest times… it always begin outside, then slowly triggers a certain emotion. The emotion grows as you give it attention and In no time it awakens the pain in your heart. Thus become your state of being; what we often call a MOOD.
There was a time when I got so busy with tasks and decided to put self care as my last priority. I didn’t take a shower for 2 contentious days! GROSS I KNOW. But the lesson I learned from this experiment was BIG. I recognised the dramatic mood swing. Showering is a big deal. When showering you’re not only cleaning your body from dirt. But you’re cleansing your energy too. Our aunt sisters understood that water is the key to life. They referred to water as a cleansing tool and use to do what they called SPIRITUAL SHOWERS. Where you perform a normal shower, but while dropping water on your body you imagen the negative toxic energy falling off with the water. As if the water is stripping away the negative energy from your body part.
The danger of not showing regularly goes beyond the spiritual and psychological aspects. When you don’t shower your skin PH becomes disturbed. In addition your skin pores gets blocked. When your skin can’t breath you feel DEAD and develop frustration, anger and depression. Your state of being reflects on the outside; through your attitude and what you attract. Energy thing is energy, so take care of your energy first .
A short advice to those who have Been suffering with depression for a very long time. YOU’RE NOT ALONE. Yet just because it’s common it doesn’t mean you accept it. Get yourself out of it NOW!! Look at your lifestyle and what could possibly be feeding your depression. Is it sad energy you watch on Instagram? Is it your diet or your self esteem? Or is it the fact that you lock yourself at home? .. You see, our anut sisters lived outdoor. They never had electronic devices or OGM food. They listened to their bodies. Thus they never had depression. LIVE AS A HUMAN, LIVE THE RIGHT WAY.
If I would ask you right now, are you free? will you honestly answer yes? Most people deep down know that they didn’t reach the definition of freedom. Maybe the definition itself is the boundary. Maybe you weren’t born a slave to this world but you enslaved yourself by what we call A TITLE. Maybe the roles you play are not a part of life, but a mechanism for limitations.
What is an IDENTITY?
An identity is a title that you inherited by the society based on your Role ( functional role believed by the subconscious mind). in addition, your identity could be based on a place that you THOUGHT you found yourself in. It’s anything we put before it “my “ or “I’m”. The dark side of self identifying is that what you identify yourself with becomes a part of you. Not in reality, but in the subconscious belief system it become WHO YOU ARE . which makes you attached to the tittle. thus you live in a loop of your SELF IDENTITIES and can never become or do something out of that loop. Simply Because your’s strongly attached to it. Every identity you adopt takes away a piece of your freedom, limits your potential and keeps you fixated instead of being the flexible human being you are .
It’s extremely difficult to overcome the desire of self identification. But when you stop looking for “who you are ” automatically opens the door to the truth of who you are. Identities are man made illusions. They’re created by the mind and feeds the Ego . As long as the ego inside you is alive, consciousness can’t take place. Only more limitations of the the false image will emerge; causing illusions like fear, over thinking, negativity etc.. TO BREAK FREE YOU MUST LET GO. To rise you must kill what’s holding you down, remember you are your own worst enemy.
Do you think you are independent at this point of time? … You know I always thought i’m independent at many stages in my life. But every time I think I’m, I discover I’m actually not independent. He who answered this question as “NO”. Is the closest to the truth; YOU CAN NEVER BE INDEPENDENT.
Sure! You will grow and become independent in the dictionary of this world. You will own things..no longer need your parents or people etc. Best of all, you will become emotionally independent ( by spiritualgrowth). Emotional independence is the advanced level of independence. It have a strong link with spirituality since emotions are the language of the heart. When you come to the realisation that your soul is independent of this world, you will learn to survive on your own (with the help of God only). Emotional independent is the detachment from all external sources. It’s such a POWERFUL state of being and it’s empowered even more with the reliance on God.
The reality is, we can’t achieve full independence. Simply because we’re created as The slaves of god. A slave is always needy. Always Relying on his master. It’s a blessing dont you think ? When you understand that your creator is the sustainer and most generous, you will happily submit to him.
The state of grace is also known as the state of light or enlightenment…Some call it the love of God since it’s the state where God’s light is within you. Infact, it’s the highest state of consciousness one can reach! Exactly as it’s called light, you actually SHIN. In this state you become light to others & transmit light everywhere you go.
Your presence become intensely distructive because you’re vibrating in an high energy filed (of love, joy and peace). Negative people will not be able to withstand your vibration. So they’ll avoid you all together. Not only people of lower energy but also any type of negative event, where fear, anixity or anger are present. s Will no longer exist or be able to exist around such things. This’s what we call the benefit of enlightenment 🙌.
Your sharp consciousness will protect you from the negative fields of others by raising the frequency vibration of you energy field, that anything vibrating at a lower frequency now exists in a virtually a different order of reality. On the other hand, you will attract certain people (Those with an alert or escalating in consciousness). So be ready to welcome new vibrant alive people into your life.
Note: In the times of the prophets those who got attracted to the message of the massagers and seeked religion where those of who are conscious. So as you desire to help and have reached the state of compassion you will become blessed with those who listen to you. Those who will receive your light and pass it on. It’s a beautiful thing isn’t it ? Even more wonderful realising all this beauty is the beauty of God … The light ..The ease ..The love. What a blessing to become alive!
Your body can do anything your mind command it to do. Your mind is your limitation. If you continue doing something at a constant pace with NO MIND ( no thinking) you can go on to infinity.
This’s how an athlete finished the race with a broken leg. How humans do the “impossible “. It’s not that they’re any special, it’s that they have learned to not give attention to the things that stops them ( thoughts, Fear, physical pain and self doubt). Limitation are their to protect you from the unknown, fight or flight response from your mind to stop you and keep you “safe”.
In order to overcome these intense signals you must shut down the mind! Mute the mind. Don’t think of the pain or your surroundings. Don’t distract yourself with the future or pasr. Then and only then you’ll by pass the physical pain and detach yourself from your entire body. Let me break the process down for you.
1. Have a strong believe in yourself.
2. Mute the mind .
3. Continue the action you’re doing at the moment ( constant momentum of constant velocity at an infinite time).
4. Self talk, if needed!
As soon as we give birth, our mindset shift from “ free ” to “responsible “. As if a heavy weight is dropped on our shoulders. The ego find this an opportunity to grow! It fool us into defining us with the parenting role. Thus a mother will play the mother role on her child and gets extremely angry if her child doesn’t follow along. It’s not just a role for her! it’s her identity. WHO SHE IS, in other words who she think she is! Obviously this creates a lot of problems within a family. Parents clinging on their children’s freedom, Abusing and unfairly dealing with issues… all under the role of “parents”. Unfortunately, this might cause serious damage of the child’s personality. Such as being irresponsible, indecisive or lacking a personality all together. In some severe cases the child might never recover from playing the role of a ” child “.
Parents! I understand the profound love you’ve for your children. Yet true love can never be expressed through the ego. The ego always seek conflicts to validate itself. The role of a parent is nothing more than a tool for the ego to stay alive inside you and keep you attached. Inaddition the superior parent role creates a boundary between the child and his parent. Infact, any relationship that include the ego is inauthentic.
If you really love your child and concerned about him/ her, ask yourself these questions every time you catch yourself playing the role of parenting.
1. Did I like it when my parents did ( your reaction to the situation) this to me ?
2. Is their a better way I can deliver my message ?
3. Who is the better teacher experience or what I’m going to say right now ?
4. What’s the worst case scenario of this situation ?
5. Is my actions and words showing love or the opposite?
6. Do i really want my child to become the best? And is the “best” other than himself ?
You can still be a parent without playing the role of a parent! Give your child love. Give them care & knowledge but through friendship. Become their life supportive companion and not a superior parent. The best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. Be real. ONLY REAL THINGS CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS. Let life teach them! yes, I understand you dont want your child to do the same mistakes you’ve done. But let’s be real; did you learn through experience or words ? Don’t forget that your experience made you into who you are today. So please! give your child SPACE…Let them be, experience and grow. SPACE is truly the most thing they need. Let go of your attachment Now! for the sake of your children.
The good will come to you, if you’re patient enough. Patience is hard yet it assures you with a huge reward. Becoming patient is not any kind of superpower, it’s indeed easy. The difference between a patient person and a non-patient or reactive person, lies in the mind. He who’s aware of the flow of life will tend to be patient. He understands that within every situation there’s the part (for you ) to deal with & the uncontrollable part (for god). Use your part wisely and accept the rest. Acceptance is the door way to acquiring patience.
Things will fall into place if you just wait. Relax and trust God. You dont have a strong faith? Pray. Praying will help you surrender to the situation more easily . In addition will give you the feeling of control which is also called stability in the spiritual language.
For betterment seek alignment with positivity. Higher your vibrational state from worried and impatient to, happy and accepting. Your positive state of being will grow and attract more positive things! Things that you didn’t ask for or imagined.