Technology and culture are deeply interrelated. If technology change social culture will change. Just how the industrial revolution turned people into a industrial human beings with different values and mass pursuers. The same thing will happen today. It’s not a new age, but time repeating itself.
However, the rapid change in technology that we’re dealing with today is going to cause a strong confusion. what philosophers call it “a future shock “. Undoubtedly people will adapt to advanced technology yet not everybody will “get it”. The majority of people will be confused which will lead to mental illness.
How to survive in a future shock?
“Learn to unlearn, relearn and learn” I have not better advice to give you. Laterally this’s the key to future survival. We’re all adaptable beings but not everyone is flexible; I’m talking about mental flexibility. If you lack this quality then it’s time to develop it and you can do so by constantly doing new things, exposing yourself to new ideas and not being attached to any fixed form or title.
There’re countless myths about soulmates out there, I honestly dont understand why.. I mean a soulmate must be very distinguishable. However, I decided to make this blog in order to clarify the confusion.
Myth 1: we often think a soulmate is a person who “complete us”. The truth is you’re already a whole, You’re complete by your own. An accurate definition of a soulmate comes from the word itself “mate for the soul“. Which indicate that your soulmate is a person who is spirituality alignment with you and balances you out. A mate who you find harmony with in the physical and non physical world.
Myth 2: Another misunderstanding about soulmates is that he or she must be very similar to you. My answer to this myth is “it depends”. Some soulmates are similar, others are totally opposite. It doesn’t matter! What matters is that there’s a strong field of connection between the two souls. Another sign to look for is that “Do they make me grow?” …doesn’t your partner challenge you into becoming the best version of yourself? If the answer is ” yes” then he/she is your soulmate and vice versa.
Myth 3: Most people believe that a soulmate relationship is all rosy. I’m sorry but it’s not, a soulmate relationship is just like any relationship. There are ups and downs. Especially in a soulmate relationship where each partner subconscious challenges the other’s , it’s fair to say that such relationship could have more difficulties than a regular relationship.
It all began with an empathetic heart that thought it could heal a broken one. With no time the heart broke measurably before realising the absolute reality; which is “it’s not your responsibility to heal, save, punish or control other people”. yes! it’s not. It’s not your job to save others, neither do you have the capacity to do so. Empathy is good yet it should be thinked. An empathy who doesn’t use his mind in taking decisions will definitely break his own heart. Another common heart breaking attitude is expectation. A naive person with a good heart will always expect good from others and will soon be broken by those who are broken. As if a broken heart is a disease that spread..
Since every individual were once naive and empathetic. The world is left with broken people. People who lost hope in life. Neither do they understand their main purpose. To clarify, THE HUMAN MAIN PURPOSE IN LIFE IS NOT TO HELP OTHERS, IT’S TO WORSHIP GOD. When you build a connection with your creator and actually live in alignment with the universe. God will take care of you and those around you. Because only God is capable of healing people.
Are you saying that I must become selfish?
Not selfish, but in understanding of the nature of life. That people are sent to you for two reasons. Either for you to learn a lesson from them or to teach them. However teaching should never be misunderstood as healing. Indeed the best method of teaching is by DOING NOTHING. By being your conscious self that radiate a very intense graceful energy, which goes to impact others positivity. Your consciousness have the power to awaken the consciousness in others. You want to help a negative person? become the best positive person you can be. Your positivity will leave no choice for him/her but to change or to disappear from your life…Again! it goes to the fact that you can’t always heal everyone, only god can. It’s best to accept this truth and never play the victim again. You’re not broken , you’re healed , you’re complete. you have abundance of love within you … tell yourself positive affirmations long enough and it will become your reality.
My sister have spent her entire life hanging from one job to another. In every job she repeated the same phrase ” I’m not happy “. My sister wasn’t a slave to the system. She had courage to stand up for herself and she didBut she couldn’t quit her old fashioned mentality! She was like any human, looking for happiness & success. She was someone who believed happiness & success exist with a common job, especially in a super developed city. My sister failed to realise what she’s looking for is in fact inside her .
“DON’T ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO THE WORLD, ASK WHAT MAKES YOU ALIVE .” This’s one of my favourite quotes plus the reason for my sister’s dissatisfaction. Non of the positions she obtained were fulfilling her, simply because she wasn’t living her life mission. We’re all born with a gift. A gift that’s suppose to be used for the service of others. Everybody’s gift is different. To find what your gift is; you must discover who you are not. When you know who you are not, who you are will become clear.
Note : Don’t confuse your gift with passion or interests! One of the common mistakes is that people have too many interests. So they run around trying to do everything. While you can only get excellent at one thing, Which is your gift..
But How do I find my gift / purpose in life faster? Experience.
I met a very wise man on my flight to Africa who I ended up being friends with. He told me something that’s stuck with me ever since, “welcome all experiences”. Go through everything that comes your way, UNTIL THE END. The more you experience the better you know what not to do. which later guide you to your purpose. Dont take failing as something too seriouse, you’re not worthless! Your failure is for two reasons, either the thing you failed in is not meant for you ( not your purpose) or it is your purpose in life, but you’re on the road of learning. EMBRACE AND LOVE EVERY FAILURE, BECAUSE EVERY FAILURE IS A STEP FORWARD.
People talk about “winning” and “losing“. But winning what ?? Money? is this really what life is about? Is losing really a loss? …Life is nothing but different levels of consciousness for everyone. There’re no WINNERS or LOSERS. we’re in this together. We’re one. Inferiority and superiority are creation of the ego, not the human reality.
The problem with a winner loser mindset is that it defines you with a worldly achievement. Everything that arises dies. This’s the nature of life. Every new life cycle require an ending of another cycle. In order to have an UP there must be a DOWN. However, getting attached to the UP through self definition ( “winner”) is basically allowing yourself to go DOWN with that UP.
Don’t allow the winner mentality to destroy you. Don’t give it power by attaching yourself to it. You are not a winner or a loser, you’re yourself and whatever happens in the external world is not you. Don’t chase things or people! The state of absolute power comes when you’re CONNECTED TO EVERYTHING AND ATTACHED TO NOTHING . I kid you not when I stopped needing or chasing things, everything came to me. There’s a hidden power in detaching yourself.
LETTING GO OF ALL THINGS ATTRACT EVERYTHING. – law of attraction.
Everywhere I went I found broken pieces of beautiful hearts. I tried to become the key to every door. But is it possible? Can one free all?
I knew the power within me is far beyond the limits. “It seems like a hard task ” my inner doubt whispered, as I became more desperate for the mission.
Book after book, I thought I was ready! I took every shot that life granted me. However, the result didn’t satisfy me .
Finally in a cold night. I realised that one does free all. But it can’t be me or you. It must be the one above us ALL.
Love is a positive attracting energy. If you give love you’re not going to only receive love in return, but you will receive peace, fulfilment and happiness too. Energys of the same frequently flow togerher. When you transmit love it will attract other positive energies that align with it.
Why love remain while everything else vanish through time ? It’s because love have to do with our state of being. Have you heard of “GOD IS LOVE “. it’s derived from the feeling of oneness ( that love gives). We’re one with the universe, it’s the human truth. Love is an energy that guide to the state of oneness. It’s a power that connect souls and gather hearts.
Love is so POWERFUL because of it’s permenent effect on being. Once you receive or give the energy of love you will feel a deep sense of peace, beauty and stillness. Basically you’ll get enlightened. Your state of consciousness will shift to a very high level (where love is), thus you’ll become very alert. At a small village in Africa a rule of love is found. When someone does something wrong or commit a crime. The entire village gather with the criminal at the center and They begin to mention all the good things he/ she have done. Aiming to bring the criminal back to his good self. It’s fascinating how they’re aware of the power of love. They understand that the human is born pure and By simply connecting him back to his natural state, all his impurities will fall off.